U2MaNaIcWeIdO said:
That's not good...that's really not good
Hey Guys
Elessarian said:
Elessarian said:
It sucks bigtime. She lives in Atlanta, I live in Alabama, about 5 hours difference. She's come to see me once or twice, and I went to New Orleans for what seemed like a month for her wedding. But it's not about tit-for-tat, really, although she's acting like it is.
See, I don't wanna go to Atlanta to see her. I went once and was miserable. I was staying at a hotel with another friend who was attending a conference there, and she (my bf) didn't even bother showing up till like 3 in the afternoon. I spent most of the weekend sitting in a hotel room by myself. When I did go to her apt., we just sat on the couch in silence while she and her husband watched tv.
And that's another thing, I don't really like her husband. Like at all. And I don't think he's ever really clicked with me either. I've never been at liberty to tell her I don't like him, so she thinks I'm just being lazy, inconsiderate, or whatever.
This could end badly.
VintagePunk said:Oh yeah...I got almost 7 hours of sleep last night. I almost feel human again. Or at least as close as I generally get to feeling human.
FlyYourKite said:
I hate to see relationships coming to a troubled end. But as they say, what will be will be.
Elessarian said:
It sucks bigtime. She lives in Atlanta, I live in Alabama, about 5 hours difference. She's come to see me once or twice, and I went to New Orleans for what seemed like a month for her wedding. But it's not about tit-for-tat, really, although she's acting like it is.
See, I don't wanna go to Atlanta to see her. I went once and was miserable. I was staying at a hotel with another friend who was attending a conference there, and she (my bf) didn't even bother showing up till like 3 in the afternoon. I spent most of the weekend sitting in a hotel room by myself. When I did go to her apt., we just sat on the couch in silence while she and her husband watched tv.
And that's another thing, I don't really like her husband. Like at all. And I don't think he's ever really clicked with me either. I've never been at liberty to tell her I don't like him, so she thinks I'm just being lazy, inconsiderate, or whatever.
This could end badly.
Elessarian said:
We've been "best friends" (whatever that means) since 1998...and for 5 of these past 7 years we've lived in different states. *Phew* It's not always been easy.
Freakin' marriage. It always ruins the best friendships.
Elessarian said:
It sucks bigtime. She lives in Atlanta, I live in Alabama, about 5 hours difference. She's come to see me once or twice, and I went to New Orleans for what seemed like a month for her wedding. But it's not about tit-for-tat, really, although she's acting like it is.
See, I don't wanna go to Atlanta to see her. I went once and was miserable. I was staying at a hotel with another friend who was attending a conference there, and she (my bf) didn't even bother showing up till like 3 in the afternoon. I spent most of the weekend sitting in a hotel room by myself. When I did go to her apt., we just sat on the couch in silence while she and her husband watched tv.
And that's another thing, I don't really like her husband. Like at all. And I don't think he's ever really clicked with me either. I've never been at liberty to tell her I don't like him, so she thinks I'm just being lazy, inconsiderate, or whatever.
This could end badly.
VintagePunk said:
In light of the fact that I'm fairly alert and awake today, this is sort of funny.
When I read about IMing with your bf, I imediately thought "boyfriend." Then I read this section, and you were referring to your bf as "her."
"That's cool," I thought to myself. But then I was a little confused by the terminology. Is one member of a lesbian couple referred to as a boyfriend??? I'd never heard of that, and it seems to go against everything they stand for...but maybe it's a regional thing, I thought.
I read further, and saw that your female boyfriend is married. "oh, the plot thickens," I thought. This could indeed get messy!!
It was only when I was about three quarters through it that I realized in this case, bf means best friend.
In the space of about 45 seconds, you went from being a lesbian with an oddly referenced partner, to bi (when I remembered that you lust for Bono)...to being an adultress, because your female boyfriend actually has a husband.
But I'm okay now.
VintagePunk said:
In light of the fact that I'm fairly alert and awake today, this is sort of funny.
When I read about IMing with your bf, I imediately thought "boyfriend." Then I read this section, and you were referring to your bf as "her."
"That's cool," I thought to myself. But then I was a little confused by the terminology. Is one member of a lesbian couple referred to as a boyfriend??? I'd never heard of that, and it seems to go against everything they stand for...but maybe it's a regional thing, I thought.
I read further, and saw that your female boyfriend is married. "oh, the plot thickens," I thought. This could indeed get messy!!
It was only when I was about three quarters through it that I realized in this case, bf means best friend.
In the space of about 45 seconds, you went from being a lesbian with an oddly referenced partner, to bi (when I remembered that you lust for Bono)...to being an adultress, because your female boyfriend actually has a husband.
But I'm okay now.
VintagePunk said:
In light of the fact that I'm fairly alert and awake today, this is sort of funny.
When I read about IMing with your bf, I imediately thought "boyfriend." Then I read this section, and you were referring to your bf as "her."
"That's cool," I thought to myself. But then I was a little confused by the terminology. Is one member of a lesbian couple referred to as a boyfriend??? I'd never heard of that, and it seems to go against everything they stand for...but maybe it's a regional thing, I thought.
I read further, and saw that your female boyfriend is married. "oh, the plot thickens," I thought. This could indeed get messy!!
It was only when I was about three quarters through it that I realized in this case, bf means best friend.
In the space of about 45 seconds, you went from being a lesbian with an oddly referenced partner, to bi (when I remembered that you lust for Bono)...to being an adultress, because your female boyfriend actually has a husband.
But I'm okay now.
dazzlingamy said:mmm when best friends move away shit always goes down....
and MEN
here's a question - why does your best friend always seem to hook up with really idiotic guys, ask you your opinion, you say he's an idiot, and they then get in a HUFF with you, then not two weeks later have broken up with him cause hes a idiot and come to you crying?
MEH.
Well thats probably a bit too much sharing LOL
Elessarian said:Hey VP
Email me your address so I can mail you that pop cd n' stuff. (elessarian@comcast.net)
I'm kinda nervous about sending it through ysi since it's a regular copyrighted file as opposed to a bootleg or something. If you don't mind.
VintagePunk said:
Thanks!!! I sent it last night, and just resent it again.
VintagePunk said:Later Fly!
Dis and Amy!
Nope, no lines in this thread.
Elessarian said:
Whoo! *wiping tear*....that was awesome...
Speaking of odd terms, my friend here in town (who is, in fact, gay) says his one dream is to be Larry's brusband. Brusband!
VintagePunk said:
Thanks!!! I sent it last night, and just resent it again.