Anthony said:
hiphop, I hear you're quite the ladies man.
Say you met a stunning woman and went on the perfect date with her and believed her to be the love of your life, but then she disclosed that she is, in fact, a transsexual. Keep dating her, or is that situation too strange for you?
Ant.
P.S. - this is a question I always ask people who I think are at least interesting, so be honoured rather than offended.
Ant, thats a good question.
However, I am not the ladies man... maybe I once was, but all I can hope for is an angel to release me. You can realize that from my posts, its long I haven´t posted kissing smilies or else, except maybe to one particular person on this forum.
I want the real thing, the very one, and so I try to be a brave man and find someone who ´s not playing around like I was, when a very long relation had ended. Ok, I know many ladies, many great women, but (maybe it surprises you to hear that) I say "no" more often than "yes".
As to the stunning transsexual. I don´t know, once (many years ago) I actually knew a transsexual. Never got to the stage of dating or more, but we were flirting. So this girl I knew had just finished her operation, right, and was taking hormones and stuff.
Well, if she had been born as a woman, I would have tried more than I actually did. But her being transsexual was a little too much. Ok, I wasn´t fully in love and didn ´t believe her to be the woman of my life. She was interesting, but I think I had fear. I mean, when she physically was a man, she surely had sexual intercourse with other men. I knew she had lived a rather liberal sexual life (and continued to do so), so it wasn ´t really meant for me. At that time of my life I was interested in everything dark, freaky or "forbidden", so it was great to know her.
If I met a stunning woman, went on the perfct date, and believed her to be the woman of my life (even if it takes more than a few dates for that, but lets suppose I am crazily in love)... and then she tells me she ´s transsexual, first of all it would make a big difference if she ´s already done with the operation. I surely would not date with a (physical) man.
But also if she was fully accustomed, to being a "real" woman, I would have a load of doubts. Maybe I want children sometime - she can ´t get them. So in order to finally reply to your question, I think I would continue to meet her: more like a friend with a little flirting maybe, but surely explain to her that I am not the man for a true, long-time relation with her.