digsy
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VintagePunk said:
Or worse, that we're seeing the same man?
only if he's exceptionally good at light speed travel!
that said.... he did say he was going away this weekend...
VintagePunk said:
Or worse, that we're seeing the same man?
digsy said:
or sometimes you get both (i'm getting both, its very weird)
some positives that bowl me over and then indifference that sends me reeling.
i think the fact that i'm finding it very hard to tell whats going on probably means there ain't much going on
digsy said:
only if he's exceptionally good at light speed travel!
that said.... he did say he was going away this weekend...
WildHoneyAlways said:
So what do we do when this happens?
digsy said:
so what is it then? do we make our interest known (which you probably won't pick up on anyway) or do we play aloof and hard to get?!?!?!
see this is why i hate games! it really should be as simple as i like you therefore i'll call you.
but no, intead we get the 3 day rule and the not thursday rule and the hard to get bollocks and all that shite.
believe me, if i like a guy, then i'm definitely not gonna be put off if he shows interest too. in fact the complete opposite will occur and making me wait 4 days for a phone call is not doing you any good at all!
so stripping and tattoos it is then i guess
LarryMullen's_POPAngel said:I hate this crap. *gets stripper pole to start practicing on*
LarryMullen's_POPAngel said:
Exactly, yeesh! It should NOT be this hard!
Make it clear you like them, you're perceived as a stalker.
Be subtle, they'll never get the hint.
I hate this crap. *gets stripper pole to start practicing on*
digsy said:been then, done that... it only works to a certain degree
digsy said:
thats what i want to know because i'll think i'm making myself obvious enough but then my guy friends are like "oh no, we'd never pick up on that"
short of stripping and tatooing "i like you" on my forehead, i don't quite know what else to do sometimes!
shaynar said:omg... I've dealt with so many games in the last month let alone.... argh
-the girl can't call, make the guy call you
-guys can't ask a girl out for a fri/sat too early on b/c it shows they have nothing better to do
-the girl must act like she is indifferent to the guy, this will make him like her
and this is just to start off
anyone else?
ZeroDude said:Well I’m the sort of guy who for the most part needs a girl to show considerable interest before I can really return the interest with interest so to speak.
If you find yourself getting on well with a guy and are able to have a friendly conversation with him then maybe you should ask him out.
There are a lot of us out there who just don’t have the requisite balls.
shaynar said:I just simply don't understand why, if two people are interested, they can't just go for it!
Zootlesque said:
because one is not sure the other feels the same way!
digsy said:
i dont think it's too hard to show your interest without making a fool of yourself.
unfortunately people dont do that, or they give off mixed vibes which is how you get confusion and shyness and threads like this!
digsy said:
i did my bit, i tried and i possibly got played, but you know, life goes on, i think i'll get over it.
LarryMullen's_POPAngel said:I'm going to mention that phrase the next time someone thinks they're helping me by saying I was spared all the crap by not getting anywhere with someone I like.
U2Girl1978 said:
Do you have any updates?
being nosy. sorry!
Zootlesque said:
I didn't wanna say it but that's me right there!
more like... I'm never sure if it's acceptable to just walk to a girl and say 'hey you're cute, you wanna get some coffee?' as opposed to.... starting up a conversation about some stupid thing when it's pretty obvious that it's just an excuse to ask her for her number. and then working my way into.. 'wanna get a cup of coffee?'
Yes.... Ladies?
LarryMullen's_POPAngel said:
Oh, the ole love life is D.O.A, especially when it comes to him! He was over and done with in my brain since the day we left for Christmas break!
Blue Room said:
Well, at least you didnt have to go through.................................
Sorry April, I couldnt resist.
digsy said:right i've officially given up!
after a bunch of flirty emails, totally leading me on, he backtracked again last minute.
i could not be arsed anymore
AtomicBono said:
sorry to hear it I guess if he can't make up his mind then he's not worth your time. of course it really depends on the circumstances but meh
I've come to the conclusion that no one likes me there have been a couple guys that seemed to show interest in me, so I started liking them, and I never even made it obvious but they eventually backed off which is dumb because I might not have liked them in the first place if they hadn't been flirty first!! ah well it was probably just me misinterpreting things as usual... guys are so confusing...