ahhhhh............
There you go.
Why is it always that? Communication...........
I'll have to keep that in mind for future refernces.
Well, that's really too bad. I don't like it when it's hart to talk like that.
I hope, for your sake, that you get hip to open up or something. If you can't do that, then I say it's a doomed relationship. Sorry, but I don't think it's a good thing.
It's like cutting off oxygen to the brain.
Maybe you can like try to spend some "us" time together and talk about the realtionship, about "us". I would recomend maybe even going to some sort of like couple counseling (not that I'm saying you need "help" or anythin glike that, just an idea), but i don't know if y'all, or he, maybe, is ready for that.
If he's not saying anything back now, well, start slow...
and I don't mean to be harsh, but....
actions do speak louder than words.
If he's not putting the effort to make things work, or make things as best as possible, then
"He's just not into you"
(okay, wow..... you know what? that...... that came from..... from Oprah...... I need to like do some push ups or something now..... ugh).............
(I dont' watch it often, I just have a good memory, that's all- contextual memory... not that there is anything wrong with a guy watching Oprah, but.... it is definitly.... geared towards women and all that...... um.............. yeah......)
moving on.......
but one more thing..... please, and this goes for anyone, don't be in a realtionship where the other person doesn't care enough. Don't be afraid to allow yourself to deserve a quality relationship- I'm not saying that this case is like that- I honestly don't know the ins and outs. But don't be afraid to want the best, because everyone deserves to be loved.
Nat King Cole- "Nature Boy"
"The greatest thing, you'll ever learn......
is to love,
and to be loved.....
....in return..."
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PS: NOthing is wrong with loving hard. I like hard love- that's they way I am. But I've learned that you've got to have it respected, otherwise it's in vain. But to me.... hard love is good love. And really, it's the only love that's real.
no need to half-ass something serious like that