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Irvine, thanks for your perspective. That was helpful.
MooMoo! said:dear irvine, why are men such arseholes when theyre in groups but can be nice alone?
MrsSpringsteen said:Why are some men seemingly so blinded by looks/whatever else you want to label it as and can't see what a woman is really like when everyone else who observes the woman can see it-they can't seem to realize that the woman is so fake around them. Maybe they just don't want to realize it, for whatever reason.
Why do nice women always finish last?
Why do some men stop liking you after you assert yourself - about anything really..
Irvine511 said:
i suppose that some men get so wrapped up in the idea of a "hot" girl that they willfully deceive themselves. this is more of a commentary on this particular male's shallowness, or more accurately insecurities, than anything else. in the end, he's screwing himself over if he thinks her looks are going to last. what will remain is her personality.
Irvine511 said:i suppose that some men get so wrapped up in the idea of a "hot" girl that they willfully deceive themselves. this is more of a commentary on this particular male's shallowness, or more accurately insecurities, than anything else. in the end, he's screwing himself over if he thinks her looks are going to last. what will remain is her personality.
anitram said:I don't know about the 10 year age difference thing, Irvine. I think it's fine if you are 49 and 39, because then life experience is more equal. But to me, the difference between 19 and 29 is HUGE. And although I think it's possible to have successful relationships with a significant age difference, when I see a 29/30 year old guy in a bar surrounded by a dozen college freshmen, to me that looks like "gonna get a piece of ass tonight" and not "I might have a lot in common with these girls, like our shared love of literature, so why not try dating them."
MissMaCo said:irvine, who are you ?
VintagePunk said:
Do you accept PMs about topics that one would rather not discuss on the thread?
Reading this thread has been thoroughly fascinating, btw. You've offered some great insights.
whenhiphopdrovethebigcars said:another question: do you think gay men care more about looks than straight men? (i have that impression. not with my gay friends, rather generally) if yes, why?
briarrose said:Irvine
Thanks for answering my questions. It was very helpful. Also, I was wondering if you ever heard anything about the asexual orientation.
LarryMullen's_POPAngel said:Ok, I got a few for you...
1) Why do men agree to things they have no intention of following through on?
2) Why do they choose to ignore a woman after she's asked him out for an innocent lunch?
3) Why do they then act fine whenever the woman talks to him, thus confusing her even more re: the supposed ignoring?
You might want to ignore this post - I'm what you'd call a tad miffed at the moment.
Irvine511 said:
oh, April ...
let's talk about this stuff in your thread. okay?
Irvine511 said:
oh, let me count the ways i loathe Dr Phil.
i mean, honestly: who the fuck is he and what the fuck does he know?
joerags said:Irvine
I am 32 years old. I work two jobs. I still live at home.
Do women consider me a loser?
I have a college degree, but I still have to work two jobs. There would be no way I could afford to live on my own.
Is there any hope for me, or should I just resign to the fact that women would never be interested in me and just continue to live this life and hopefully one day try to find a better job or career?
ZeroDude said:I've a quick question for you, obviously your answer is only your opinion on the matter but I'm curious.
If in some way I feel under appreciated, am I in fact an egotist?
ZeroDude said:I don't think I'm really willing to fully expound on what I meant there, but sometimes I feel rather surplus to requirements so to speak, not only in social situations etc. but in the general passing of my life and this leads me to feel under appreciated some how as in no one really takes not of my worth.
It's probably just my overly melancholic mind acting up again though and I know I can live with that. It's most definitely "kick up the arse time".
MrsSpringsteen said:How do I get back the parts of my heart and soul that I gave to men who were so unworthy of that?
I just want to find a guy who is a truly good friend, what is the best way to go about that?
MrsSpringsteen said:I understand about the activity thing.It was more wondering how I can find a guy to be friends with who I can trust and be completely myself with, who actually cares about me and doesn't play games and hurt me too much. I just get so tired of not being accepted for who I am, and I finally reached the point in my life a few years ago where I actually believe I deserve that. I don't trust men very easily at all, so that would be one question I could ask about men-how can you tell for sure that he is trustworthy?
joerags said:Irvine
I am 32 years old. I work two jobs. I still live at home.
Do women consider me a loser?