Sad_Girl
Blue Crack Supplier
Bri, have you been sipping Weldy's unwanted champagne?
Babydoll said:Did anyone see my post on the previous page?
Sad_Girl said:
Even if there's an ocean standing in the way of a valentine's kiss from my guy
Babydoll said:Is anyone here an expert on eating disorders?
Babydoll said:Is anyone here an expert on eating disorders?
Sad_Girl said:Bri, have you been sipping Weldy's unwanted champagne?
Babydoll said:Bri. You are on a roll tonight.
~BrightestStar~ said:
*coughphonesexcough*
I mean, awwwww!
Babydoll said:weldy, I think I might be in the very beginning stages of the thin side one.
Sad_Girl said:
EXPENSIVE phone sex
he's surprisingly proper for a tattooed biker dude
Well, he is British after all
Babydoll said:weldy, I think I might be in the very beginning stages of the thin side one.
~BrightestStar~ said:
Oh dear. How utterly alluring you are, miss. You make me want to take off my jacket. Please allow me to remove your pantaloons while I unbuckle my trousers.
Babydoll said:I think I might be having a tiny problem: I have always thought I was overweight, and every single person in the world tells me I am not and I KNOW I am not but I FEEl that I am. It's hard to explain these conflicting emotions. I was a chubby kid but now my weight is between 109 to 111 pounds, it fluctuates. I'm only 5" so I'm not underweight. I have a curvy body but it seems here the attraction is more towards the tall stick-thin types. I eat as healthy as I can and work out regularly and those are the days I feel good about myself. However on the days when I don't work out, like for the past couple days when I've been too busy with school stuff, I feel real guilty and adopt a 'screw-it" attitude. I then tend to binge on unhealthy, easy stuff and feel real guilty after it. However I don't puke it out, thank God. It's just that I feel guilty sometimes and feel low sometimes about my body image and I know it's wrong.
One of my ex bfs broke up with me telling me I was "too fat." Later I found out he said that as an easy way out, he had his eye on this other girl instead.
So to sum up, I weigh around a 110 pounds as an average and am fit and love cardio when I workout, but there are days when I feel really blah..... and indulge in "bad" foods and then feel guilty... and the cycle continues.
U2MaNaIcWeIdO said:
It doesn't sound like you have an eating disorder...it sounds more like an unexplained insecurity issue...like you self-confidence is low for some reason.
(Sorry if I sound insensitive...but I treat stuff like this with the upmost seriousness )
Sad_Girl said:BD - People with anorexia are obsessed with being thin. They don't want to eat, and they are afraid of gaining weight. They may constantly worry about how many calories they take in or how much fat is in their food. They may take diet pills, laxatives or water pills to lose weight. They may exercise too much. Anorexics usually think they're fat even though they're very thin.
you've just described the text book definition for anorexia you need to see someone - the fact that you are aware of it means it's managable, but maybe you just need a little help to keep you on the right path
Babydoll said:I've never taken any pills or anything and never intend on doing so. I try to do what's healthy, as much as possible. But I have my good and bad days....
Babydoll said:I've never taken any pills or anything and never intend on doing so. I try to do what's healthy, as much as possible. But I have my good and bad days....
Sad_Girl said:
That's what an eating disorder like anorexia is, hon. There isn't usually any metabolic cause, it's a perception problem that has the potential to cause physical illness
Sad_Girl said:
a counselor can just help you to hold on to the good days and grant you a little extra strength so the bad days aren't quite so bad there's no shame in it and no harm - if it isn't helpful, it certainly isn't hurtful, either
Babydoll said:
To me anorexia was always associated with stick-thin bony women who never eat at all, a la Nicole Richie. I do love my food and like I said I do eat ok, as in full, healthy meals but when I don't the guilt settles in.