that taught me a lesson that men should be asking girls out, because men need to be physically turned on by how a woman/girl looks, and if that aint happenin, then he really doesn't wanna know.
now these days I never get asked out, I blame my looks - but then Im keeping myself to myself cause I hate my image (bad smile and all). I may or may not be correct in what Im doing. Im not being vain about it either, but as an observer, I cant help but notice and stay quiet.
This is COMPLETELY the wrong mindset... there shouldn't be any defined 'rules' as to who asks out who, just what feels right at the time - you making a move or them. And if you're basing it on idiot guys who feel like they have to be asking out Angelina Jolie or something, then you're going for the wrong guys
That's ridiculous dear, you're gorgeous in your pictures on your profile and have a gorgeous personality on here to boot. I don't think you're vain, I just think you're insecure - and only you can change that, doesn't matter how many people tell you what I've told you. But it's honestly the truth