I've been reading through every page of this thread with great interest and I've been quite flabbergasted by some of it! I know every fandom has it's overly keen fans but I never realised just how it is with some U2 fans!! I've always loved U2 purely for their music but have never got into the whole fandom side of things in a big way. I've been casually reading this forum, on and off, for years but, as you can see from my post count, haven't posted much. I'm more of a lurker.
I don't get why some fans feel that they have to be at the front at every single show they go to, especially when they go to so many of them! I don't know about anyone else but I would be totally embarrassed if I thought the band might think I was some obsessed fanatic who went to every (or almost every) night of a tour and always had to be at the front at every show! I'd imagine the band members seeing me for the umpteenth time and thinking "Oh God, not her AGAIN, always at the front, trying to attract my attention" or whatever! Always the same faces, night after night! If you're just going to one night of a tour then sure I can understand wanting to have a good vantage point for the gig. But is it necessary to be at the front for every single show? If you're seeing the same show over and over again wouldn't you want to at least mix things up a bit and see if from different vantage points in the venue? I would have thought that would keep things more interesting? I'm just puzzled by this.
I can only imagine that the band (whether they admit it or not) must surely get fed up of seeing always the same old faces at the front at every show. Maybe they think these fans are selfish for not giving other fans a chance to be up front, fans who may only be going to one concert.
Reading about the behaviour of some of these self-entitled fans I'm amazed to think this is the behaviour of adults!! Adults acting like spoilt children who have tantrums when things don't go their way. I'd expect this kind of behaviour from young girls at a Justin Bieber concert, not grown adults at a U2 concert! Hopefully it's only a tiny minority who behave in this immature way but it's a shame that there aren't different people up front at each show, purely to make it fresher and more exciting for the band themselves! I mean, how can someone who's seen the same show 20 times have the same amount of excitement, enthusiasm, energy and anticipation as someone who's seeing the show for the first time and doesn't know what to expect?