sallycinnamon78 said:
Yes. He's an adult, reponsible for 3 kids, and he STILL doesn't have the sense to wear a seatbelt? Agree completely with you there - he's an intelligent guy and should know better.
We all know that many fatalities occur like this. It doen't take a minute to clip a belt on for Christ's sake.
Rereading this thread - just to correct my own error: I meant 4 kids, not 3.
X-it 7 said:
I completely agree! Causes and irony aside, cigarettes destroy voices. I mean he has serious voice problems on EVERY tour!
I'm not arguing with your point, or anyone else's for that matter, about cigarettes being harmful and extremely damaging - we ALL know that you are right on that score.
Listen to "In a Little While" and you will hear the voice of a man who needs to put down the cancer sticks. My God he's got enough money to buy the gum or the patch or something to assist.
A singer smoking is fairly stupid, yes, as apart from the usual health risks and damage to his body, he's destroying one of his most valuable assets, one upon which he relies to make a living.
I do understand the point you're making there.
I love In A Little While - I think it's one of the best songs on the album, and that is largely due to Bono's vocal. He wouldn't have sounded half as convincing 20 years ago when his voice was strong as a foghorn. In this song he is portraying himself as he has become, and as he IS NOW. Damaged vocal cords, messed up soul from too much smoking/drinking/partying/general tomfoolery. His voice fits the song perfectly - and if anything, in my opinion, the song is designed to fit his voice.
That's not to undermine the harm smoking does.
It wasn't easy, but by no means the hardest thing I've ever had to do. It's all relative I guess, depends how badly you want it.
Watching my Mom survive cancer was enough motivation, now chemo, THAT's hard.
Damn right it's not easy, and yes, I agree. That said - I haven't given up yet.
I'm watching my sister die at the age of 21. She has lung cancer and various other forms.
She asked if it was due to smoking. The docs said, no way in hell would that happen at her age.
The first thing she told her specialist was that she would give up smoking immediately. He told her not to, as with everything else she is going through, her heart (which is weak anyway) wouldn't take the pressure of withdrawal.
Obviously I'm far more concerned about her than myself - but I know that if I tried to give up smoking now, I would fall on my arse, and would cope even less well. When I'm (hopefully) stronger, I'll quit. Not now.
I do have a success story though: my mum's best friend Perry started smoking when he was 11. By the time he was 25, he was on 60 a day.
When Perry was 38, he had to have an operation. It was just routine surgery, he had some problems with his sinuses and they had to be sorted. No problems with the surgery were expected as it was standard.
During the operation, Perry's throat started bleeding. This gave the surgeons a fright to say the least! When he came round he was told that if he didn't stop smoking IMMEDIATELY he would die young.
So, having been a smoker for 25 years, he quit. Didn't cut down, or set a time limit... he just quit, having been on 60 a day. That was 8 years ago. I take my hat off to him - trhat is some amazing willpower.