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~BrightestStar~ said:Awww!!!
Those pics are so sweet.
And you look pretty in the wedding pic!!
I can imagine - I've come close to ditching all the wedding stuff beforesami0201 said:
my english teacher told us that after she got divorced she took all her husbands underwear and cut holes in the crotches
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Sami VP Bri SG 
how are you?
sami0201 said:
my english teacher told us that after she got divorced she took all her husbands underwear and cut holes in the crotches
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I kept them, thinking Sarah might want them someday. And I'm not bitter or angry about the marriage, I never really was. I'm the one who ended it. We were just way too young. I grew up, and he didn't. It happens. And I had a LOT of doubts about getting married in the first place, but was sort of pressured into it - my family is fairly old school, and marrying at a young age for many of them was common. 
VintagePunk said:
ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!! Too funny!
Actually, I haven't burned them.
The thing I AM bitter and angry about is the way he behaves now. It doesn't have to be like this. We could be friends. Oh well, his choice. I just deal with him as little as possible, barring fmily crisis situations.
I love her My cousin's dad has been divorced twice (from my aunt and then from his second wife) and him and my aunt are like best friends, which is great, but his second wife is the devil 
I don't think they'd ever speak to each other again if it wasn't for the kids...
I literally bought the first one I tried on. I totally was NOT into planning my wedding at all.
But okay. Adams Atomic Bum!
VintagePunk said:Very pretty, SG!!!
I look at my wedding dress now, and think...OMG
I've known quite a few people how've had divorces, most with a bit a time end up getting along quite well. Others, they (or one of them 
) can put eachother through hell.
Yours is really pretty. 
sami0201 said:
well, most of the time anyway
I'm sorry, it sucks when you can't be friends.
it just depends on the people
We were your age when we started going out...so imagine if you were to meet your future husband right now. It's sorta like growing up with the person. After a rough first 6 months, we got along pretty well, but since he's been with his current woman, things have been different. I understand - if I were with someone, I'm not sure how comfortable I'd be with the best friends thing. So, I understand her position, but I think you should be able to back off gracefully due to the situation, without creating strife and artificial problems/issues that force you to end the friendship on bad terms.
I was really really lucky to have a nice wedding 
VintagePunk said:
I thought we'd always be friends, but shit happens.
Oh well.
which is ultimately why the marriage ended...it just seemed like the next step, but they weren't ready The first few years were really bad because she kind of had a nervous breakdown (my cousin has lived with his dad instead of mom for his whole life- not exactly the norm) but a few years ago they started talking more again and now they're friends. 
Sad_Girl said:
That says a lot about what happened between you two, kindof doesn't it?
VintagePunk said:
Me? I wasn't one bit interested, I just wanted to sit in a field of daisies and be this earth mother type, and feel my baby kick, and daydream about being a mom.
But they made me plan a damn wedding.
VintagePunk said:
We'd talked about getting married since we were kids. Then when we hit 21, and had just gotten back together after a 6 month break-up, he really started to talk about it seriously, and I kept putting him off, telling him when we're older. Then I got pregnant, and I told him he didn't have to stick around, but he insisted. So...that's sort of what bounced the timing up.
Me? I wasn't one bit interested, I just wanted to sit in a field of daisies and be this earth mother type, and feel my baby kick, and daydream about being a mom.
But they made me plan a damn wedding.
I HATE weddings! After mine (it was nice in the end but WHAT a HEADACHE!) I've hardly been able to stomach going to anyone elses
Sad_Girl said:
And it must make it so much better for their son.
Sad_Girl said:
trust me, it took a ton of work...so there's always hope
Sad_Girl said:
VintagePunk said:
Did you do yours, the planning, and stuff? What was it like?
I swear, my sister planned most of mine.
I want to elope
