Tell her!
Originally posted by Zoomerang96:
run away from her. as tempting as it may be to tell her, the negatives seem to always outway the positives.
if i were you, i dont really know exctly what id do. but i know id never tell her in a million years.
interesting situation you got there, but to refute what i just said, you only live once, so maybe you want to think about it this way...
do you like her so much that youd rather go all out and tell her this and say screw the friendship its all or nothing, or keep things the way they are and rake your own feelings over the coals to stop your hormones from doing something potentially dangerous?
Originally posted by Diemen:
Romantic feelings don't automatically cancel out a friendship or end/ruin it. It's not "all or nothing" as you say. If the friendship is strong, then it will survive.
Originally posted by zoomerang II:
Ignore eveything else except this:
If you don't ask, the answer is no.
Good luck!
Originally posted by Mrs. Edge:
There is NOTHING worse than regret, especially for things you DON'T do. Can you imagine how you would feel in 50 years when you are both married to other ppl and you tell her about this and she says that she felt the same way? It would be devastating.
A lot of what Angel says is true, but you have to decide if her love is worth the gamble. I am always putting myself out there, but I think it's worth it. Besides, if she's not interested but really cares about you, she'll not only be very flattered, but will (hopefully) put asside her initial feelings of awkwardness to put you at ease and hold onto the friendship.