I must insist that a distinction is made between corporal punishment and 'child abuse' - the two are completely different.
As an advocate of corporal punishment, I do believe that the parents have a right to choose how to bring up their child, however, I of course do not endorse child abuse.
I can understand your argument, nbcrusader, why should people have a right to choose whether to have an abortion or not and yet they should not have the right to choose on how to raise their kids, and I do partially agree with you. I whole-heartedly believe in parents having the right to bring up the child, but I also believe that 'some' will abuse such a right. This is also very true in the case of abortion (then again, I am anti-abortion), as in I believe that not ALL cases are wrong, it is subjective at the best of times.
Abortion is problematic, but since you've raised the issue of corporal punishment, it raises something that I would like to address - the suffering of the child. One of the many things that raises problems for me when it comes to abortion, is the question of the child. I have often asked myself, what is worse for the child; not existing at all or being raised by parents who never wanted him in the first place - essentially, being raised by bad parents? It effectively boils down to the same thing, the same end-result as one would get from child abusers - a tormented child - and this is the prime concern for me, and I believe it should be the prime concern for everybody. Forgive me, but I have always believed that when it comes to these matters (abortion, corporal punishment... or anything else that requires an innocent child to be included in the picture) it is the child, the LIFE that we as adults chose to implicate, that takes precedence. It is not a question of having the right to 'choose' anything, it is the right to do what is best for the child, not necessarily what is best for the mother, the father or whomever.
I am not saying that I agree with abortion - I do not - but I am willing to concede that both areas contain plenty of shades of grey, and are not as black and white as I would like to think. Yes some adults abuse their right to raise their children as they wish, but then again, there are some adults who do abuse their rights to have sex with whom they wish, and hence accidents happen. If modern society proves anything, is that too many mistakes do happen.
The continuous spread of STDs (AIDS still being the worst culprit), the seemingly increasing number of unwanted pregnancies in some countries, the increasing number of divorces etc. are all symptoms of a society that is clearly NOT responsible for its own 'right' to choose whatever. By all means, grant more freedoms to people, I am not a liberal for nothing, but you cannot have more freedoms without responsibility.
Being more central to the topic, freedom without responsibility is exactly what I see when I look at the Death penalty. Here we have something that I have never been able to reconcile with; how can we as a State ever think of ourselves as both responsible or indeed posses the right to take another's life? The truth is, we do not have either - we haven't earned it.
I don't see the Death Penalty as something completely negative, God knows I was very much for it until a few years ago, but I do think that it negates the whole idea of trying to create a more just society. It has been proven that it is not effective as a deterrent, and one must ask why.
We cannot have a society that is built upon fear, it must be built upon virtues. Society is also measured by its ability to be merciful, I believe. Or atleast, it should be.
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My position? Anti - Abortion.
Anti - Death Penalty.
Pro - Corporal Punishment.
(Subject to exceptions - always.
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