ZeroDude said:
You almost sound abit like me, just a bit, although I need alot of social interaction and attention.........
Here, man you should never have to make many ajustments to who you are, just be yourself all the time, it works better for ya.
No, you don't understand.
I am more myself now than ever before.
If I just let things go the way they were headed I would have been
A- a pot head
B- a drunk
C- gang?
D- someone who doesn't care about life at all
E- someone who doesn't know how to be happy in life
F- Someone who doesn't care about anyone or anything
If I simply let my environment dictate who I was, I'd be a wasted cause.
I've matured alot through my own cause, for my own reason, for myself. It's not about changing who I am, it was about developing into myself.
You can't be a kid your whole life, though that's an arbitrary statement for this discussion.
And through my "childhood", I've had to do without a lot of things most people have. But that doesn't mean I don't know what it takes to live life and be happy.
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Sorry, this is turning into a post about me, and not about our lovely thread originator, U2Dem.
Well, things can get pretty haywired when love comes to town.
Listen, the best advice I can give about relationships is ...
Find someone who is interested in similar thing you like, and maybe even have common goals.
Personally, I think all the games are Bull, so I don't play them, and I've never had any problems.
So just be upfront about what you want, whether it's just a social relationship, a more boyfriend/girlfirned relationship, a party partner, something alittle more serious, or something really serious.
A big part of everything is knowing what you want. That way, even when your not expecting it, if you know what to look for, it will be there.
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Oh, and I am still in HS
There are 3000 people, total, in my school.
How many girls have I goen out with in that school?
0
Kissed?
0
How many do I want to go out with?
0
How many do I want to kiss?
(some of them are hot, but for a first kiss I would want it to be more special, like others have said)
so 0 again.
(I suppose the next question would be how many girls want to go out with/kiss me....
It doesn't really matter, but let's just say that if I wanted to be in a half ass realtionship, I could have that easily. But I'm not going to compromise my standards/principles, etc.)
just trust me, okay?
I don't like people in HS
They don't really offer anything for me.
I'm more into the deeper things in life, so it doesn't bother me.
It's just a little irratating that I can't break out of HS too much, though when I do, it's great.
so don't let "HS" dictate your life.
(not that you look like you needed to be told this
)
(and don't be afraid to look elsewhere for people to get along with. That worked for me.)
Sometimes your needs can't be met in a certain area, so you must look elsewhere. If you're anything like me, I strongly advocate this. But I had a really hard time getting out from the cloak of HS, but it is worth it.
Be true to yourself, and true things will come to you.
Besides, I personally like quality over quantity.
(monogamy can be a wonderful thing)
(... you just have to find the right person, someone worthy of you)
heh heh heh