Don't feel like you aren't important. I know I don't know your whole situation, but I sometimes feel like my boyfriend thinks that. I moved down by him earlier this year and left behind my dad. I also get very lonely for my hometown (I left there over 5 years ago). There are times that I cry about it. I also cry every time my dad leaves after he visits...and I cry whenever I leave after visiting my dad for a weekend. Sometimes, it makes my boyfriend feel like I hate it here and that I wish I'd never moved here. It's not true though. I love him, and I don't regret what I did for a second...but it doesn't change the fact that I do miss the other places and people in my life and find myself truly longing for them at times.
She probably doesn't mean anything by it. Speaking for myself, it's a very busy time in the semester (even worse than right before exams) and most nights I'm either exhausted from working or working on projects all day, or I have way too much to get done to even make 5 minutes with my boyfriend meaningful.
I wanted to see her today, and she said it wouldn't be a good idea. I won't go in to much more but yeah ... I feel like I'm not important.
