MissVelvetDress_75 said:
I have a question for those who have gone back to school after leaving a full-time job.
Was it hard to go back into full student mode?
Are you working at all?
Any tips would help.
As someone who is just about to graduate from college after years of being in the workforce, I believe I am very well-qualified to answer your questions.
Was it hard to go back into full student mode?
Yes, going back to school is a huge life change. Just like getting married or having a child, going to college can make your life change in ways you won't believe. Some are good. As an older student, you offer so much to the classroom with your life and work experience. You will accomplish things you never thought possible. If you would have told me I would have become the editor-in-chief of a college newspaper, I would have told you you were nuts, but it happened.
Other good things, you will discover a whole new world of ideas, opinions, and people. You will gain confidence and you will realize that you matter in the world.
As for the bad, well money is an issue. I'm up to my eyeballs in student loans. Plus, you have to shell out money for books and supplies. Don't be surprised if you have to cut certain goodies out of your life. I stopped going to a high-end salon and now get my hair cut at SuperCuts.
Time is also a issue. Don't be surprised to spend more time on homework and class projects than you expect. Your social life may take a beating. It's been a while since I've been on a date. But after I graduate, watch out! My goofball friends are taking bets on how long it takes me to go from celibate student to horny slut. Snerk.
I have worked mostly full time during my entire college life. Right now I'm doing an internship, but I've mostly done temp work because it fits into my schedule. I was able to do this because my college has a very intense week-end college program. I also took some night classes.
Other tips I can give you. Try to find a college that has a lot of non-traditional college students. Try to get involved with activities as much as possible. Buy your books used and get a back pack on wheels. Your back will thank you. Don't be afraid to ask for help whether it's from faculty, staff, fellow students, your family, your friends, etc.
And listen to lots of U2. I know those boys really helped me get through college.
Any more questions? Don't hesitate to e-mail me at
golightlygrrl@yahoo.com
Good luck!