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A stereotypeMrsSpringsteen said:
How do you know that? You are basing your opinion on a stereotype that doesn't apply to everyone and honestly is one reason why these women are getting away with what they are doing.
Getting a disease might even be a breeze relatively speaking when compared to the emotional damage that might be done. A 14 year old boy is still a child mentally and emotionally, I don't care how much sex he is having and with whom, even if it's consensual and with girls his age. So add an adult into the equation and an adult who is a teacher, well it sure seems like one big problem to me. Most 14 year old boys have no idea about the potential long term damage a situation like that can have on their future emotional lives, mental health, and in future relationships.
A_Wanderer said:A stereotype
The major issue here is that it involved an abuse of authority, 14 is the age of consent in many European countries. I fail to see how this case warrants such harsh criticism and demands for "justice".
BonoVoxSupastar said:
Harry Vest said:Sure it's a "double standard". So what.
It all depends on the 14 year old boys state of mind. Was he tricked into having sex - I highly doubt it. Was he molested, drugged, or fooled in any way??? Probably not. I know it's been said far too many times but there is real truth in this...I wish I had had the opportunity to score with an older babe when I was 14!!! Sorry folks but it's the truth. Most 14 year old boys would.
Now the difference between a man and a girl and a woman and a boy - the biggest differences are... the boy most likely really wanted to have sex with this "older woman" (not that there aren't cases that are similar involving girls) - the huge difference is that the 14 year old boy COULD NOT GET PREGANT therefore it is not as serious as it would be if a pregancy was involved. That is number 1 in my books. I guess the "older woman" could of gotten pregnant but oh well, at least she's not 14. It's the oldest double standard in the book and will always be that way no matter how many Nancy Graces there are telling us otherwise. Unless it is UNWANTED sex (big fat ugly psycho teacher molesting 14 year old boy) and if indeed it was MUTUAL then leave it alone and start concentrating on the real pedophiles out there - ones who harm CHILDREN and not horny 14 year old boys!!!
MrsSpringsteen said:So it's drool over child molesters time?
MrsSpringsteen said:So it's drool over child molesters time?
yolland said:So you guys would be A-OK with it if you found out your 14-year-old daughter was having a sexual relationship with her attractive male teacher?
Infinitum98 said:
Absolutely not.
yolland said:And if it were your 14-year-old son and a female teacher?
yolland said:So you guys would be A-OK with it if you found out your 14-year-old daughter was having a sexual relationship with her attractive male teacher?
yolland said:And if it were your 14-year-old son and a female teacher?
Angela Harlem said:
You know it's because of the non-consenting that these laws are in place, because of the 14 year olds who need protecting. Everyone accepts that until it becomes something both parties want to do. It's similar to domestic violence and complicity. The double standard is one thing, but willingness to overlook this as criminal because there is consent kinda leaves me a bit dumbfounded.
MrsSpringsteen said:But attractive men would seemingly still be held to the same standard as unattractive men, is the same true for women? Is an attractive woman less of a molester somehow in the eyes of some for some of the reasons alluded to in this thread? After all she's "too pretty for prison", and teenage boys want older hot chicks. We have to protect the teen girls even from attractive men, but somehow not the boys from the women (or is it only the hot ones)?
Harry Vest said:If the 14 year old boy went along with this sexual "affair" willingly then why all the fuss...if it was a girl she has the possibility of becoming pregnant, which makes for a much more serious situation. When I was 14 I would have loved to sleep with a girl that looks like the one in question...It would NOT have been molestation...I would have volunteered it. This is a non-issue. Start concentrating on real child molesters that abuse CHILDREN - this is where the real evil is...NOT with hot blonde twenty somethings fooling around with a willing 14 year old boy...Geez people, get your priorities straight.