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back to you weldy for a minute........or any one in a somewhat similar situation............

....one of the mixed emotions I had a few minutes after I got the news (since i got to talk to a few of you directly, now, I'll probably post the details of the past several days later in the weekend) was.....

'I'll never have to worry about her again'............since I have been worryinbg about her since I was around 5 or so- after she got really severe asthma after about of bad flu seasion in 57/58 winter.

I hid my worries for the most part. ANd probabnly buried most of any resentment I had even deeper.




 
dazzledbylight said:
back to you weldy for a minute........or any one in a somewhat similar situation............

....one of the mixed emotions I had a few minutes after I got the news (since i got to talk to a few of you directly, now, I'll probably post the details of the past several days later in the weekend) was.....

'I'll never have to worry about her again'............since I have been worryinbg about her since I was around 5 or so- after she got really severe asthma after about of bad flu seasion in 57/58 winter.
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Thanks Dazz :hug:

I know it's going to be hard for a bit...but time heals all wounds....I hope :hug:
 
U2MaNaIcWeIdO said:
I'm used to her illness/medical emergencies (cause she's been sick since I was born)....I wasn't close to her because her "momness" and her views drove me batty sometimes. But I still love her no matter what!
But I understand what you are talking about Dazz :yes: :hug:
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You can love someone and still resent them at times because of how their condition takes away from more relaxing times.

Interesting my mom was sick about ? 7-9 months after my sis was born. SHE thought she caused my mom's illness.
On the other and I have some memories of my mom being very vibrant, active person reduced physically to some one half-choking to death x times a day/during a week.
 
dazzledbylight said:
You can love someone and still resent them at times because of how their condition takes away from more relaxing times.

Interesting my mom was sick about ? 7-9 months after my sis was born. SHE thought she caused my mom's illness.
On the other and I have some memories of my mom being very vibrant, active person reduced physically to some one half-choking to death x times a day/during a week.
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True :yes:

Interesting (the second part I mean)....I can understand why your sister thought she was the cause....but it's really not her fault and your mom still loves her (I'm just assuming here)
 
U2MaNaIcWeIdO said:
Thanks Dazz :hug:
I know it's going to be hard for a bit...but time heals all wounds....I hope :hug:
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:hug:

It wasn't until 3 summers ago that I thought I'd be able to get through her death (vs my dad's which will be "easier" b/c he became so negative for so many years until his massive stroke which left him mostly a sweet man, but with little short term memory in tact. It's even worse now) -- without landing in the hospital.
bUT i TRHINK i'M STRONG ENOUGH TO RIDE THE WAVES OF GRIEF THAT WILL COME AND GO. sWAMP ME AT TIMES, BUT i'LL SURFACE AGAIN. :)

to be extra sure I have a homeopathic emotional rememdy (Bach Remedies) plus
chewable 100 mg vit C w flavinoids chewable vitamins. '
So I'm, take 3 - 6 grams a day. now to extra protect my immune systemDr Linus Pauling said a person can take about 10 grams a day safely)
 
dazzledbylight said:
:hug:

It wasn't until 3 summers ago that I thought I'd be able to get through her death (vs my dad's which will be "easier" b/c he became so negative for so many years until his massive stroke which left him mostly a sweet man, but with little short term memory in tact. It's even worse now) without landing in the hhoaspitL.
bUT i TRHINK i'M STRONG ENOUGH TO RIDE THE WAVES OF GRIEF THAT WILL COME AND GO. sWAMP ME AT TIMES, BUT i'LL SURFACE AGAIN. :)

to be extra sure I have a homeopathic emotional rememdy (Bach Remedies) plus
chewable 100 mg vit C w flavinoids chewable vitamins. '
So I'm, take 3 - 6 grams a day. now to extra protect my immune systemDr Linus Pauling said a person can take about 10 grams a day safely)
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:hug:

Well...if you need someone to vent your emotions towards...I'm here :hug:
 
dazzledbylight said:
GLUEY!!

been thinking of you! :heart:

since i only got here a WHILE AGO AND HAVE NOT READ ANY UPDATES....how did it go??!!
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:hug: It was interesting to say the least - not the most fun thing to be awake through. They found 2 arrhythmia's :ohmy: which was a surprise. One was an AV nodal reentrant tachycardia which is the most common, and affects mostly females. He's 95% sure he's burned that one away, which is good because that's the one that would have been causing my dizzy spells and threatening to make me faint :yikes:. The other one, Atrial Tachycardia, wasn't very helpful in coming forward so it's anyone's guess if I'll have any improvement there. I'm off all meds now while we wait to see how successful it all was. I feel like I'm getting over the worst imaginable case of heartburn now, and feel very tired and tight in the chest, but I'll be ok.....:hug:
 
It'll be a mini daschund before you know it, gluey, and then you'll be all bionic again :hug:


:hug:s for everyone... I'm still here, but don't know what to say except :hug: .


:reject:
 
gluey said:
:hug: It was interesting to say the least - not the most fun thing to be awake through. They found 2 arrhythmia's :ohmy: which was a surprise. One was an AV nodal reentrant tachycardia which is the most common, and affects mostly females. He's 95% sure he's burned that one away, which is good because that's the one that would have been causing my dizzy spells and threatening to make me faint :yikes:. The other one, Atrial Tachycardia, wasn't very helpful in coming forward so it's anyone's guess if I'll have any improvement there. I'm off all meds now while we wait to see how successful it all was. I feel like I'm getting over the worst imaginable case of heartburn now, and feel very tired and tight in the chest, but I'll be ok.....:hug:
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awake??!!???!!!! EGADS!:no:
:hug: :hug:

TWO ??!!??:ohmy:

oh THAT'S good, getting that dizzy causing one away! :crossedfingers:
Especially since falling down alot could have whole other medical consiquences :yikes:

:( &%##@!%&# I'm sorry the other one doesn't seem to be improved.... life-long meds for that?
 
dazzledbylight said:
awake??!!???!!!! EGADS!:no:
:hug: :hug:

TWO ??!!??:ohmy:

oh THAT'S good, getting that dizzy causing one away :crossedfingers:ESp since falling down alot could have whole other medical consiquences :yikes:

:( &%##@!%&# I'm sorry the other one doesn't seem to be improved.... life-long meds for that?
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Yep, :yikes: Had to be fully awake as the Atrial Tachycardia I have tends to hide good and proper if you're sedated.....It was an experience, I'll say that much.....

The dizzy one was a big concern because IF I did faint properly, I wouldn't be allowed to drive again :no: So thank goodness that one should be gone.

As for the other one, he tried burning away a couple of suspect spots. If it returns I have to go back on my meds - on a double dose. If it doesn't come back then I'm home free....so cross your fingers for me.....
 
Gluey! :hug: I haven't had a chance to speak to you since your surgery, but I posted in your thread in ZC. So relieved for you that it's over, and I'll have my fingers crossed for you. :)
 
This song really sums up what the Plebans bring to my life......

Take some strength from it Dazz....its lyrics ring so true to the beautiful friendships I have formed here..


You've Got A Friend - James Taylor​
When youre down and troubled
And you need a helping hand
And nothing, whoa nothing is going right.
Close your eyes and think of me
And soon I will be there
To brighten up even your darkest nights.

You just call out my name,
And you know whereever I am
Ill come running, oh yeah baby
To see you again.
Winter, spring, summer, or fall,
All you have to do is call
And Ill be there, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Youve got a friend.

If the sky above you
Should turn dark and full of clouds
And that old north wind should begin to blow
Keep your head together and call my name out loud
And soon I will be knocking upon your door.
You just call out my name and you know where ever I am
Ill come running to see you again.
Winter, spring, summer or fall
All you got to do is call
And Ill be there, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Hey, aint it good to know that youve got a friend?
People can be so cold.
Theyll hurt you and desert you.
Well theyll take your soul if you let them.
Oh yeah, but dont you let them.

You just call out my name and you know wherever I am
Ill come running to see you again.
Oh babe, dont you know that,
Winter spring summer or fall,
Hey now, all youve got to do is call.
Lord, Ill be there, yes I will.
Youve got a friend.
Youve got a friend.
Aint it good to know youve got a friend.
Aint it good to know youve got a friend.
Youve got a friend.​
 
I haven't been to a funeral since my Grandma died 26 years ago - 1980.
I skipped one of my Aunt's (she was the first of our circle of Anuunts/uncles on my Mom's side - Dad is an only child) > she sort of intimidated me , and later I got more cdfomfortable with her, but not as much as my otherrelatives.
I have been at 2 memorials since - my fav aunt's husband (and my mom's beloved sister -who's turning 90 July 4th) & one of my cousins ( one of 2 who have died ).
Everyone else is still alive :heart: of my mom's blood & marriage siblings.
 
zuropa_fit said:
I haven't heard that song in years Gluey. :sigh: :hug: Nice to know that we've got friends all over the world, eh?
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:yes: :hug: I tell you, that song has reduced me to tears with the truth in it many a time in the past. And I love being able to come here to share joy, fears and sorrow and know there's always someone to be by my side for it. :hug:
 
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