U2girl said:
I thought I already addressed the "corporate U2 and Bono mouth" thing.
Unless you know for sure, don't asssume the tour isn't happening/being worked on. I guess you think the tentative Hawaii date and Rocko Reedy note was also just opening a big mouth?
I don't remember saying/thinking "heartless bastard" to anyone. That is not what I said re: care and concern.
And I addressed my point of view on the corporate U2 and Bono issue too. I feel the band's public relations sucks on this issue. It would have been so very easy to just put a simple notice on U2.com.
I didn't assume anything. What I was trying to point out is that most of the people who
are affected by this postponement, that is the people with tickets and blown plans, would really like some assurances by the band (someone official, doesn't need to be a band member) that yes things are really happening. And even if things are being worked on in the background it would not kill the band to show a bit of compassion to their fans and tell them that the process is still moving forward. All they want is some assurance that it is actually happening -- and silence, especially when a band member went on a very popular and well regarded show and said something would most likely be announced in a very few days (he said that coming Tuesday didn't he?) isn't at all reassuring. You want people to show "care and concern" for U2's issues, but you don't seem to have any compassion for the thousands of people who also have very real issues of their own.
I think it's great that the people planning on Hawaii
finally have some semi-official news. But it's been a hell of a long wait until "next Tuesday." The fans shouldn't have been left hanging that long -- and of course, the people waiting for the NZ, AUS and Japanese dates are still hanging.
Originally posted by U2girl
In a situation like this, I think care and concern goes to the health issues that caused this delay rather than fans' money.
Ah yes, the lovely care and concern should be with the health issues and not the fans' money bit. How utterly condescending. Do you not think people have the right to wonder and worry about the money they spent on tickets, hotel rooms and travel? Do you not think people can worry about something they want badly to do (go to a U2 concert) and
still care about whatever U2 family member is ill? No, you didn't use the words "heartless bastards" but what you insinuated was the same.
The point I was trying to make is that it
isn't an either/or proposition. People
can do both, as I pointed out when I told you about my friend and his daughters. If I can care deeply about my friend and his children (and
he knows I do) yet still want to know about the tour his band is supposed to be doing later this year, then what makes you think people who like U2 can't do the same thing in regard to U2? Do you think that U2 attracts such shallow people they cannot possibly have two or more concerns in their minds at the same time?
Can't you you do that? Can't you care deeply about someone else, yet still care about yourself? If you can't, how do you function in life?
Ah, it's not my concern...if U2 never toured again it wouldn't affect me personally. But it would cause some people I like great disappointment and I feel for them. I don't think they should be made to feel like bad people because they care about themselves.