America troubles me a lot..... I mean, if you break your marriage vows, then....... you are a liar, and... it's like....
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I guess marriage isn't for everyone, but it's for me.
But I think to be in real love, you either need to be tremendously lucky, or (the more likely situation), you need to be a strong person who is willing to put forth time and effort, and not crumble when the sun doesn't shine. Sadly, I really wonder how many people are capable of making absolute commitments in this way. The way things go no, taking the easy road and being selfish is the "in" trend. But I shouldn't speak for other people.
I think people see marriage/love, or at least the idea conveyed to me from American media, etc, the views shown at me (as in, what I would think if I didn't analyze and philosophize), is, that it's a very conceited thing. Oh, I want to have the perfect mate, and I want to have the perfect home, and I want to be happy forever, and I want to be loved forever. I me my....
And love really isn't about you. It's just about your choice to love someone else. It's hard to be in love, real love, because, in my opinion it's hard to match up with someone who feels that way.
Or more so, for others - it is hard to find someone who thinks the same way you do about love.
You know - expectations and communication....................
Well, I will stop posting for now, because I could easily get into this subject rather intensely, and I've already posted 3 times in a row, so......................................
until next time