Got Philk?
Rock n' Roll Doggie ALL ACCESS
I realized I haven't responded to this yet. The obvious answer to the question is...me.
VERY important point. If he makes me choose between the cat and him, oh boy, that's an easy choice. Out he goes.
luckily i am very fond of cats, as you know.
oh and my answer? women want Phil^.
a tiger in bed
Have the ladies that responded in here placed any emphasis on looks?
We want tall, well-endowed men who are excellent in the kitchen, the bedroom, and are preferably mute or aversed to interjecting their opinions. Sigh.. in a perfect world
We want tall, well-endowed men who are excellent in the kitchen, the bedroom, and are preferably mute or aversed to interjecting their opinions. Sigh.. in a perfect world
Phil, do you make Lies carry heavy things?
Oh no...
Just look at the shirt!
Sorry, I'm taken dear...I mean...I dont' have an opinion on that...:silence:
Oh no...
Just look at the shirt!
The only thing about looks I care about is how well in shape the guy is. I won't mind a few extra pounds, but overweight guys do not interest me. This is because I am trying to lose weight myself and I am aiming to eat a more healthy diet and hitting the gym more. A guy who noshes on nothing but pizza and beer and does not exercise, says to me that he does not care about his physical health. That's a turn off for me.
What kind of fish are those? Did you catch them with your bare hands?
Yes, because only people who "noshes on nothing but pizza and beer and does not exercise" are overweight or "bigger". They're fat, lazy people who don't care about their health. It has nothing to do with genetics whatsoever, in some cases.
Sorry, I'm taken dear...I mean...I dont' have an opinion on that...:silence:
I was being sarcastic. The stereotype that anyone, male or female, who is bigger or "overweight" are that way as a result of poor eating choices or lack of exercise and don't care about their personal health is something that has always bothered me.
There are plenty of people out there who eat healthy, exercise, and do everything right, yet are unable to slim down because of their genetic makeup. Being bigger does not always mean you're unhealthy, in my opinion.
That may not be what she intended to say, and maybe I'm being overly sensitive, but that's the way I took her post. And in my opinion, that characterization is incredibly offensive to people out there that simply cannot help looking the way they do, no matter what they do.
I was being sarcastic. The stereotype that anyone, male or female, who is bigger or "overweight" are that way as a result of poor eating choices or lack of exercise and don't care about their personal health is something that has always bothered me.
There are plenty of people out there who eat healthy, exercise, and do everything right, yet are unable to slim down because of their genetic makeup. Being bigger does not always mean you're unhealthy, in my opinion.
That may not be what she intended to say, and maybe I'm being overly sensitive, but that's the way I took her post. And in my opinion, that characterization is incredibly offensive to people out there that simply cannot help looking the way they do, no matter what they do.
Oh, Those fish are red fish. Usually they are tough to catch as they lay in shallow waters often near reeds/low hanging branches in channels off the coast or inland waters. These fish were in the Gulf of Mexico just off the shore feeding on minnows at the top of the water. Therefore, we took a little boat out to the flying seagulls and jumping minnows, threw a lure into the mix, and caught the big fish. It's called...cheating.
Pearl...I've lost a lot of weight since that picture, and had a salad for lunch. Please don't think of me as the guy who eats pizza and drinks beer without exercising.
kidding dear.
I understand and agree that genetics does take play a role in how someone's body is shaped. I do not mean to condemn every overweight person as being lazy and careless about their health.
The reason why I said what I said is because I once dated an overweight guy who did what I said - ate nothing but beer and pizza and hated the idea of going to the gym. When we first started dating, I was a little overweight myself, so I didn't think it was right to use his weight issues against him. But the thing was, I was - and still am - conscious of shaping up, losing weight and being careful on what I eat. Whenever the guy and I went out to eat, he always wanted to eat the calorie ridden stuff and didn't seem to understand why I was being so picky on what I ate. One time, he wanted to stop by a pizza joint, but after I told him I really wanted to watch what I ate, he complained about not having to go to his favorite pizza place.
I never once criticized him for his eating habits, I never told him he was hurting his health, or tried to change his ways. The reason why we broke up is because it soon became clear we had little in common, aside from the eating and exercise habits.
Maybe I was being harsh when I said I prefer guys who take care of their health. Perhaps what I should've said was I prefer guys who are on the same page as me in terms of eating and exercise habits. That way we can encourage each other and go for a run together.
I know you were being sarcastic. That's not my point. She wasn't talking about overweight people in general. She listed specific eating and inactivity habits. I think you are being overly sensitive because you misread her post. If she had said "all people who are overweight are lazy" then yes, I can see that as offensive. But she didn't say that at all. Again, she gave specific habits. Specific UNHEALTHY HABITS. Not just talking about being big in general.