blindinglights7
The Fly
No doubt that trust is one of the most important things in a relationship. That is not even a question in my mind. I'm just having a hard time with it.
What is trust and what is it based on? Do you ever fully regain trust with a person who has broken your trust before? Can you trust a person yet protect yourself from being hurt at the same time? Can you trust a person too much? There can be a false sense of trust, right? What is a relationship if there isn't complete trust? Can you completely trust somebody but not submit to them? How can you want to trust somebody so much, but you can't make yourself completely trust them?
He has broken my trust before. I want to trust him with all my heart, but because of the past a little part of me can't or so it seems. A difficult aspect of the situation is that he trusts me completely, because I have never done anything to make him not trust me. There's just this little voice in my head screaming, "Protect yourself! Don't let anything or anyone hurt you like that!"
I just don't know what to do and this is tearing at my heart. If I need to be more specific about my situation I can be. Just let me know.
What is trust and what is it based on? Do you ever fully regain trust with a person who has broken your trust before? Can you trust a person yet protect yourself from being hurt at the same time? Can you trust a person too much? There can be a false sense of trust, right? What is a relationship if there isn't complete trust? Can you completely trust somebody but not submit to them? How can you want to trust somebody so much, but you can't make yourself completely trust them?
He has broken my trust before. I want to trust him with all my heart, but because of the past a little part of me can't or so it seems. A difficult aspect of the situation is that he trusts me completely, because I have never done anything to make him not trust me. There's just this little voice in my head screaming, "Protect yourself! Don't let anything or anyone hurt you like that!"
I just don't know what to do and this is tearing at my heart. If I need to be more specific about my situation I can be. Just let me know.