how can i know if a girl i know has a crush on me?

[Earl-Of-IMDb]

becuase there are some girls out there that keep it quiet and theres some dat don't, you know what i'm talking about.. ok, i ask this because i think a girl likes me, and other people have confirmed this but i hear nothing from her! why she refuses to tell me? i heard this from her brother and shes not that bad looking either she's pretty attractive too..any thoughts? what are the signs to know if a girl likes me?

 

[snowbunny00774]

becuase there are some girls out there that keep it quiet and theres some dat don't, you know what i'm talking about.. ok, i ask this because i think a girl likes me, and other people have confirmed this but i hear nothing from her! why she refuses to tell me? i heard this from her brother and shes not that bad looking either she's pretty attractive too..any thoughts? what are the signs to know if a girl likes me?

She might be painfully shy when it comes to dating etc. Ask her out - if she says yes, she likes you

 

[elevated_u2_fan]

agreed, no guts no glory

 

[Zoots]

Ask her out - if she says yes, she likes you

This is really the only way to find out!

 

[elevated_u2_fan]

This is really the only way to find out!

just make sure she's not a skank, AM I RITE ZOOTS?!

 

[Zoots]

 

[Galeongirl]

Best way to find out is just ask her out indeed! Otherwise you will never be sure.

 

[Earl-Of-IMDb]

agreed, no guts no glory

that you said quote reminded me of a movie i think is called Mad Dog and Glory starting DeNiro, Bill Murray and Uma Thurman lol

She no way is a skank, this girl shes definetly very refined and athletic, she got an scholarship for basketball and shes a top student and athlete in her school.

the problem is that shes in another state very far away from mine.

keep every opinion coming, am I suppose to make the first move next time when she comes to town?

 

[A_Wanderer]

Not if she lives out of town, there's no payoff for a long distance relationship

 

[~BrightestStar~]

I'm with the others, you won't know unless you ask.

Not if she lives out of town, there's no payoff for a long distance relationship

Orly?

Care to elaborate a bit?

I'm not necessarily disagreeing, but that's a rather sweeping statement.

 

[bono_man2002]

Not if she lives out of town, there's no payoff for a long distance relationship

Gee Thanks. I'll put my last 15 months of traveling 2.5 hours every weekend (sometimes to spend only half a day with someone) down to a waste of time

 

[A_Wanderer]

Thats the spirit

 

[Earl-Of-IMDb]

hahahahahahaha

 

[A_Wanderer]

Glad I could amuse.

Seriously though.
- Eye contact, smiles and talking; your both hard wired to play off each other, if theres anything there you only find out by interacting.
- For goodness sake, make the first move ASAP once you know, leaving that hanging makes her feel dejected and can lead to uncomfortableness.
- What are your options, you can just as easily fall for another girl, what is the long term possibilities for the relationship.

 

[BVS]

 

[elevated_u2_fan]

how's that working for you?

 

[BVS]

how's that working for you?

I've had a few yes'...

 

[VintagePunk]

I often wish I could go back to when things were that simple.

 

[snowbunny00774]

Never mind going back VP, this needs to be a mandatory requirement now when you continually prove to be dense at this type of thing

 

[Earl-Of-IMDb]

I should just send a letter like that no names or nothing just the very popular " secret crush" type of letter, just send her flowers or something..

 

[mad1]

no no, just ask her straight to her face!

sending notes/flowers etc, its all just wasting time!



I mean, at some point you gonna have to say it was you who wrote the letter and it will either be:

a - 'Really? OMG it was so cute to read! thank you!'
or
b - she was standing there and hey, where'd she go?


ach Earl I know the feelin, falling for someone who doesn't know.

good luck anyhow dear!

 

[Galeongirl]

Don't do secret anonymous stuff, that bullshit is only a waste of time and effort.
If you give her flowers or something nice in person, it proves how nice you are and she will appreciate it MUCH more than some anonymous thing.

 

[mad1]

Exactly! yea, Galeongirl reminds me of a secret moment, so LEARN A LESSON!


and this did REALLY HAPPEN! Ages ago, like year or so ago, I go to my car and found a note under the back windscreen wiper. now, many companies round here. some boys used to think it was fun to whistle/shout, all that crap I really HATE, over at me. so anyway, grab the note, get into my car and open it to read.

it said along the lines of 'I think you are gorgeous/pretty (something like that) and would you be interested in dinner' and a mobile number and name was there.

what I do?

got out of the car, ripped the note up and stuck it in with the car-park plants.

like really, only an idiot would ring a random number.

so like, that person never approched me and thats the proper way.

 

[cobl04]

- For goodness sake, make the first move ASAP once you know, leaving that hanging makes her feel dejected and can lead to uncomfortableness.

Also, don't listen to your 'inside' mates' every words.

 

[Earl-Of-IMDb]

i appreciate all of the advice you guys..

i haven't told all of my friends about this and the ones i have mentioned this were very close friends of mine.

yeah i'm telling her..

 

[snowbunny00774]

- For goodness sake, make the first move ASAP once you know, leaving that hanging makes her feel dejected and can lead to uncomfortableness.

Didn't see this before it's so so true. You are doing the right thing by telling her, and hopefully she is in interested too, good luck

 

[RedRocksU2]

Best way to find out is just ask her out indeed! Otherwise you will never be sure.

I made this mistake in High School. Not asking that girl out, and then finding out that she liked me...crushed me.
I never made that mistake again.


Ask. You won't regret it.

 

[~BrightestStar~]

Plagarism.

 

[mad1]

Will ya let us know the result?

 

[Earl-Of-IMDb]

HECK YESSSS

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