cobl04
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I know everyone probably gets annoyed by these, mostly because there's tonnes of them, but I really don't know what to do here. This is doing my head in. So try, if you'd like, to put aside any grievances, and rap with me. I'll keep it simple.
18, male, there's this girl. We started getting along really well this year, once I'd figured out I had to stop being an idiot. Which I did. She's written me some really nice things here and there. Her birthday rolled around, and I made her this elaborate present packed with inside jokes and the like, and a necklace. She liked it. Message is on her wall, necklace is worn.
She met this bloke at a party. They hooked up and shit, exchanged numbers blah blah blah, but he's a rich little uppity boy. He openly admitted to her (and I knew before she did) that he was "trying to decide" between a number of girls. That should have ended anything there and then. You don't do that crap, you don't keep it going, especially with someone I like. Anyway he apparently ended that, but they never "went out", they were just seeing each other, which she frequently lamented about. Exams came, they agreed not to see each other until after they'd finished, cos they weren't going out. Her birthday came, and I gave the present. He did nothing, not a phone call, visit, message, anything. I assured her well he's got something big planned for your party, a month later. Party was Saturday night, and he didn't show up, no explanation. She was upset by it, I could tell, and that is unfair. Don't know what's going to happen now, I don't think she'll talk to me about it, but I do really like her and there'd by none of that crap from me. It was hard seeing her upset! I'm just hoping that another chance doesn't go this kid's way.
The point of all this is what do I do? Put it this way, if she asked me out I'd say yes in a heartbeat, but we have a pretty good friendship and if I ask there's a huge risk there. School's finished now, so I won't see her as often, which kills me. If I were to ask, I don't know when.. need a bit of time I'd assume. I have to do something. Uni is next. We won't go to the same one. And if I just sit on my hands I'll regret it.
I'm so embarrassed writing all this.
It's only me that can do something. But I just want a bit of advice cos she's I don't know. Special or something. I've never done this or really felt like this before. *hideseyes*
18, male, there's this girl. We started getting along really well this year, once I'd figured out I had to stop being an idiot. Which I did. She's written me some really nice things here and there. Her birthday rolled around, and I made her this elaborate present packed with inside jokes and the like, and a necklace. She liked it. Message is on her wall, necklace is worn.
She met this bloke at a party. They hooked up and shit, exchanged numbers blah blah blah, but he's a rich little uppity boy. He openly admitted to her (and I knew before she did) that he was "trying to decide" between a number of girls. That should have ended anything there and then. You don't do that crap, you don't keep it going, especially with someone I like. Anyway he apparently ended that, but they never "went out", they were just seeing each other, which she frequently lamented about. Exams came, they agreed not to see each other until after they'd finished, cos they weren't going out. Her birthday came, and I gave the present. He did nothing, not a phone call, visit, message, anything. I assured her well he's got something big planned for your party, a month later. Party was Saturday night, and he didn't show up, no explanation. She was upset by it, I could tell, and that is unfair. Don't know what's going to happen now, I don't think she'll talk to me about it, but I do really like her and there'd by none of that crap from me. It was hard seeing her upset! I'm just hoping that another chance doesn't go this kid's way.
The point of all this is what do I do? Put it this way, if she asked me out I'd say yes in a heartbeat, but we have a pretty good friendship and if I ask there's a huge risk there. School's finished now, so I won't see her as often, which kills me. If I were to ask, I don't know when.. need a bit of time I'd assume. I have to do something. Uni is next. We won't go to the same one. And if I just sit on my hands I'll regret it.
I'm so embarrassed writing all this.
It's only me that can do something. But I just want a bit of advice cos she's I don't know. Special or something. I've never done this or really felt like this before. *hideseyes*
or better, go watch a movie at your house or so!(well, be sure the house is empty anyway, parents are a bad factor for this(no offense parents here!))
), but you gotta do it. dont let that shit get to you. but dont forget the indifferent attitude and the cocky/funny thing!
