I wish it was innaccurate Achtung Bubba. But you know, every morning I go on a long run, and that is my personal time with the Lord. I have been asking for God to "light my way" for about four years now. So many things have fallen into place for me since I "let go of the steering wheel."
I have learned not to make women more important God. I love my fiancee with all my heart, and there is nothing I wouldn't do for her. But I have realized over the years with her that we each need that dreaded "space." When you first fall in love everything is completely shared, almost EVERY moment. Most relationships do not seem to last beyond this phase. It is a special occurance when two people can remain together past this stage, and I believe successful partners trust each other to go into their own rooms every now and then, knowing they will come back to bring more warmth and wisdom to the relationship.
It is hard because I want to give her everything she wants, but that's not what she wants
I sense she is most attracted to me when I am occupied by other things, but sneak her some daily attention. The other night I was up late working and she was sitting on the couch watching TV. I looked over and she was staring at me smiling. I smiled back and went back to work. (we made love later
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A small moment out of many, but to me that was what genuine love is about. It is warm, not hot. I believe "this" is designed this way by God so I don't forget that it is He that brought this person into my life.
You come across as a very likable guy Achtung Bubba, and I am sure that woman is just around the corner. Trust God to put her into your arms
Bad guys get the girls, but gentlemen get the WOMAN.