JanuaryStar
Rock n' Roll Doggie FOB
The thread title may seem a little paradoxical to you, well, I guess in a way it is.
Everyone in their lives, men and women alike, all run into some insecurity issues at some point. Whether it be about appearances, at work, in a relationship, over smaller things... And then when we feel at our 'weakest' we can sometimes somehow find strength in other things again, to regain some sort of balance.
My question to you is, when you face/d insecure feelings, about yourself or some aspect of yourself, what is it that you do to regain that security and confidence again? Maybe you developed some sort of strategy over the years to not let insecurity affect you that much? Or do the insecure feelings affect you so badly that you stay in some sort of loophole? Did you feel you first had to 'overcome' something to regain your confidence?
I'm interested in all of your views on this, so if you have some time to shed a little light on the topic, please do so
Everyone in their lives, men and women alike, all run into some insecurity issues at some point. Whether it be about appearances, at work, in a relationship, over smaller things... And then when we feel at our 'weakest' we can sometimes somehow find strength in other things again, to regain some sort of balance.
My question to you is, when you face/d insecure feelings, about yourself or some aspect of yourself, what is it that you do to regain that security and confidence again? Maybe you developed some sort of strategy over the years to not let insecurity affect you that much? Or do the insecure feelings affect you so badly that you stay in some sort of loophole? Did you feel you first had to 'overcome' something to regain your confidence?
I'm interested in all of your views on this, so if you have some time to shed a little light on the topic, please do so