I don't know much about history or politics or things like that... I spent my student days looking at rocks or getting addicted to the internet.
I like how the Eureka flag looks, and its history, but I don't like the association it now has, ie; racist rednecks (or so I've been told).
I have vague feelings that it might be nice to replace the Union Jack in our flag with something closer to home, or just nothing, but that won't happen until we have a Republic, which won't happen until the current government (and particularly Mr Howard) loses an election and we get 15 years of someone else to start the swing back the other way.
That referendum was completely rigged, by the way. Utter bullshit. I think the only reason the result came back as No was the way they posed the question. I can't remember the details, but it was something like "Do you want Australia to become a Republic based on the German model?" Asking us to pick a specific STYLE of Republic at the same time was ludicrous. If the question had just been "Should Australia become a Republic with an Australian Head of State, Yes or No?", I think things would have come out differently.
Not that I'm a passionate Republican by any stretch, mind you. My mother emigrated from England, and my father's ancestors are English too, but I don't hold any particular fondness for being connected to the Commonwealth (although it is fun to clean up at the Commonwealth Games...
). I also think it's simply common sense that we eventually become a Republic, and I'm sure it will happen one day (see above).
With all the things happening recently between us and the US, someone more cynical than I might suggest replacing the Union Jack with the Stars and Stripes.
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The thing with the flag and the BDO in Sydney... I completely understand where the BDO organisers were coming from in making the request, but they should have realised the reaction that would provoke. It was a silly idea to ask people not to bring flags, even if they did move the date to the day before Australia Day.
My father would probably violently object to changing the flag, if only because he was alive during World War 2 and remembers what it was like to be living in a country at war. I have no idea what that would be like, and I'd rather not find out.
All this mindless misdirected uber-nationalistic patriotism I'm seeing here is deeply disturbing to me. No one can tell me what is or is not Australian, in terms of behaviour and attitude. Branding things as "un-Australian" gives me cold chills. Slippery slope, people.
Yes, I agree there are certain things I don't want to be part of my country, like violence and racism and anything-ism. But racism, for example, is not un-Australian - it's just plain wrong. There's a lot of it here, sadly, but it's a lot of other places too.
Every time I hear someone say, "I'm not racist, but... (insert racial prejudice here)", I just want to shake them. A friend of mine drew my attention to the tendency a lot of (anglo) people here have, which is to automatically refer to the white person in a multi-ethnic group as "the Australian guy/girl". How do they know the others aren't all citizens too? They don't necessarily mean anything by it, but it's just one of those depressing unconscious things.
I think the most important thing that needs to be established is that independent thought is not "un-Australian".
For the last five years or more, I've been getting less and less proud of being Australian (not that I was filled with patriotic zeal to start with). I've seriously considered moving to New Zealand. If things keep on the way they have been, I won't like it here soon. My only consolation is that if Howard doesn't lose the next election, Peter Costello will probably assassinate him if he doesn't retire.
Of course, that's what I was thinking last time.
As for my cultural identity.... I have no idea. Maybe I'll get a handle on it after I go overseas and see if humans in other English-speaking countries (UK and US this time) are really very different to us. I feel like I have more "roots" in England and the UK than I do in Australia. I can't feel connected to the land here because I am very conscious that it was never ours (Europeans'). Maybe that's just misplaced guilt. I dunno.
I love Australia in a broad, natural-landscapy kind of sense. It is a beautiful country, I can't imagine how beautiful it was before the British settled and started screwing it up. I don't want the Barrier Reef to die, or the rivers to dry up, or the little mountains we have to never be snowed on again.
Gah, sorry for the super-long spammy post.
In summary, I think my overall answer is "I don't know".
Apologies for wasting your time!