JCOSTER
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My 3 1/2 year old neice is having a problem by constantly peeing in her pants. No matter what my bro and sis in law do she does it like 7-8 times a day.
Now when she was in the womb the doctors saw something with her urinary track on the sonogram and said that they would have to watch it. After she was born they said everything was fine.
That is until the potty training started. I had suggested that they take her to a urologist especially since the doctors thought there might be a problem before she was born. They took her for a sonogram and the technician thought that they saw something on her xray. She doesn't have an appointment until June 4th. My sis in law will bring my neice and the sonogram. So we won't know until then.
My bro and sis in law say that she is doing it for spite. I personally don't think she could do it on spite 8 times a day.
My neice is a lovely little girl, my bro and inlaw in my opinion can't handle being parents and yell at her over every little thing say bad things about her in front of her and to other people too. They never give her any praise for anything. I try to do things with my neice and have her at my house so she doesn't get yelled at 100 times a day. They way her parents are nasty and fresh mouthed to her is the same way she is to them. I never have any problem with her except for the usual 3 year old stuff.
Yesterday, my sis in law told me that my neice peed on the floor again and my sis in law took her by the hair and put her face to it like you would a dog who peed on the floor. I can't even begin to tell you how upset I am over this. I didn't even do that to our dog!!! Now my neice may have a very valid medical condition that would require a surgery or medication. I have told her parents that many a time that they should have patience with her until they know what the doctor says.
I would like to know, what constitutes abuse, are they verbally abusive cause they yell all the time and never praise her. Putting her face in pee on the floor and asking her if she liked the smell.
I am so upset about this and need advice, I don't want to talk to my brother and seem like the mother know it all.
So, please tell me what you think. I would appreciate it.
Thanks
Now when she was in the womb the doctors saw something with her urinary track on the sonogram and said that they would have to watch it. After she was born they said everything was fine.
That is until the potty training started. I had suggested that they take her to a urologist especially since the doctors thought there might be a problem before she was born. They took her for a sonogram and the technician thought that they saw something on her xray. She doesn't have an appointment until June 4th. My sis in law will bring my neice and the sonogram. So we won't know until then.
My bro and sis in law say that she is doing it for spite. I personally don't think she could do it on spite 8 times a day.
My neice is a lovely little girl, my bro and inlaw in my opinion can't handle being parents and yell at her over every little thing say bad things about her in front of her and to other people too. They never give her any praise for anything. I try to do things with my neice and have her at my house so she doesn't get yelled at 100 times a day. They way her parents are nasty and fresh mouthed to her is the same way she is to them. I never have any problem with her except for the usual 3 year old stuff.
Yesterday, my sis in law told me that my neice peed on the floor again and my sis in law took her by the hair and put her face to it like you would a dog who peed on the floor. I can't even begin to tell you how upset I am over this. I didn't even do that to our dog!!! Now my neice may have a very valid medical condition that would require a surgery or medication. I have told her parents that many a time that they should have patience with her until they know what the doctor says.
I would like to know, what constitutes abuse, are they verbally abusive cause they yell all the time and never praise her. Putting her face in pee on the floor and asking her if she liked the smell.
I am so upset about this and need advice, I don't want to talk to my brother and seem like the mother know it all.
So, please tell me what you think. I would appreciate it.
Thanks