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For me, a 20 year old college student, this is a very strange feeling. She broke up with me roughly 6 months ago (she said she couldn't "handle a relationship" at the time, but a week later began seeing someone else) and is now engaged to this guy she apparently dumped me for. I JUST found this out, and apparently it happened pretty recently (as in sometime this month)...
I don't know - she's only 19 now, and to be honest, I am pretty much over her, but just knowing that she's engaged makes me feel as though I should be doing something "more" with my life. I haven't dated anyone since she left me, and here she is in this very adult relationship. Has anyone been in a similar situation? We don't talk to each other except when randomly bumping into one another on campus (and with LSU holding about 35000 students, it doesn't happen often). heh, she was even at the U2 concert I attended in Houston.
But that's besides the point - she's ENGAGED and I'm feeling very smalltime. What else should I be doing with my life at this point? I've been involved with a lot of oncampus activities, my grades are fine ('B' average)... I'm not working right now, though. Maybe I should find a job? Or get a girlfriend? Do you think that would help change my outlook on the situation?
Eh, I'm just really shocked at the whole thing. She's Mormon and I know they usually get married at an early age, but still... You know what? It feels like I finally had a glimpse of what people my age are really capable of, and I just feel left behind, struggling to keep up. Yeah.
I guess that's it then. It felt good getting it out into some medium or another. Chow...
I don't know - she's only 19 now, and to be honest, I am pretty much over her, but just knowing that she's engaged makes me feel as though I should be doing something "more" with my life. I haven't dated anyone since she left me, and here she is in this very adult relationship. Has anyone been in a similar situation? We don't talk to each other except when randomly bumping into one another on campus (and with LSU holding about 35000 students, it doesn't happen often). heh, she was even at the U2 concert I attended in Houston.
But that's besides the point - she's ENGAGED and I'm feeling very smalltime. What else should I be doing with my life at this point? I've been involved with a lot of oncampus activities, my grades are fine ('B' average)... I'm not working right now, though. Maybe I should find a job? Or get a girlfriend? Do you think that would help change my outlook on the situation?
Eh, I'm just really shocked at the whole thing. She's Mormon and I know they usually get married at an early age, but still... You know what? It feels like I finally had a glimpse of what people my age are really capable of, and I just feel left behind, struggling to keep up. Yeah.
I guess that's it then. It felt good getting it out into some medium or another. Chow...