girlhappy said:
Nobody cares about my question.I guess i am the only boyless girl around here, for ever and ever
When I first met Phil (my husband/starter of this thread), I became FAR more social, at least when it comes to meeting new friends. In grade school, I kept to my close group of friends, but when I met Phil and two new friends in college, I started to expand a bit. My grade school friends are still my closest friends though.
However, I've never been a "needy" person. At times, attention other people crave I consider rather annoying. When I go out with friends, I go out to have a good time
with them, not as a means of hooking up and randomly meeting people. These days, I miss my friends for who THEY are, I miss THEM.
I could be the exception though, since I tend to have a smaller circle of very close friends whom I'm loyal too. I've had friends that I've held onto for too long and put up with far too much bullshit, but I tend to be "all or nothing", so if I have a friendship I've invested years in, it's hard for me to get mad at that person and walk away, even if they deserve it.