arw
Blue Crack Addict
Ok not exactly but I feel like it. One of my friends, who I am very close with, has a boyfriend now. We've both been pretty lame in the man department since we met about a year and a half ago. Maybe that's why we hit it off so well. We met at work and by the end of the first month I knew her, I felt like we'd been friends forever.
We go out all the time. We are both really each others only friend that we can just call one another up at the last minute and go out and do something.
About a month ago we were at a bar and some dude asked for her phone number. Well now all of her emails consist of "James this, James that" Or "I can't because James and I are going out."
I'm not jealous she found a guy. I don't want this to sound like I am jealous. I'm actually really happy for her because she went through a painful divorce a few years ago when she was only 26 so I'm really glad that she is finally able to find someone. I really can't express how happy I was when she told me she had a date with James because it was such a huge step in the right direction for her. I've had to spend several nites listening to her cry over her ex husband and what a jerk he still is to her so I'm really glad she is making an effort to find someone else.
On the other hand, I'm really irritated with her for just tossing me aside like a bad habit. I've never, ever done that to any of my friends and none of my other friends have done that to me. We've always made time to be with just the girls. I'm just very shocked by her behavior. It's one thing to spend a lot of time with him, it's another to completely not want to make any sort of plans with me because James might want to go out. I'm so frustrated I could
I have plenty of other people to call up and go out with so that's not what I'm upset with. It's just her whole attitude of "oh sorry I can't because of James" that's really pissing me off.
We go out all the time. We are both really each others only friend that we can just call one another up at the last minute and go out and do something.
About a month ago we were at a bar and some dude asked for her phone number. Well now all of her emails consist of "James this, James that" Or "I can't because James and I are going out."
I'm not jealous she found a guy. I don't want this to sound like I am jealous. I'm actually really happy for her because she went through a painful divorce a few years ago when she was only 26 so I'm really glad that she is finally able to find someone. I really can't express how happy I was when she told me she had a date with James because it was such a huge step in the right direction for her. I've had to spend several nites listening to her cry over her ex husband and what a jerk he still is to her so I'm really glad she is making an effort to find someone else.
On the other hand, I'm really irritated with her for just tossing me aside like a bad habit. I've never, ever done that to any of my friends and none of my other friends have done that to me. We've always made time to be with just the girls. I'm just very shocked by her behavior. It's one thing to spend a lot of time with him, it's another to completely not want to make any sort of plans with me because James might want to go out. I'm so frustrated I could
I have plenty of other people to call up and go out with so that's not what I'm upset with. It's just her whole attitude of "oh sorry I can't because of James" that's really pissing me off.