dazzledbylight
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So I get a phone call from my sis this past Sunday afternoon.
WHile it's not a day she usually calls me, it's still not "unusual".
That is, till she says- "are you available for dinner tomorrow night ... There's something I have to talk to you about.... I'm paying so don't worry about that. "
The thing that makes it a #WARNING SIGN# is that she also will have a friend of hers ( who I know some because of all the help she's given my sis, and out parents) who is a NURSE to be with us. " This is the best way for me", she says.
you know the old idea in a troubled relationship of inviting the person you're going to break-up with to a restaurant so they don't cause a big scene....?
There is NO REASON that her friend would be there unless either
1) she has to tell me about some BAD NEWS MEDICALLY about herself, and
her friend can explain it all better to me than she can/or it takes the strain off of her actually giving me the details b/c she doesn't do that well with medical/scientific stuff .
2) something else has happened to our dad... that again, her friend can explain better than she can.
2b) Our dad died and she's breaking the news this way, and her friend is there in case i faint, have some bad physical reaction. Though that would cause a scene, so this postulation doesn't make complete sense. Also she's probably going to reaction more strongly to our dad's eventual death more than I will.
These are the only 2 possibilities that configure to this level (at a restaurant w her friend/nurse) how she's presenting this new/ reoccurring problem.
I can't imagine she got fired from her job (she's the VP there) there would of been certain types of signs & portents.
Which makes me think it's her. I would really be partially relieved (as sad as it would be) that it's something to do with our dad and not her.
Any Prayers/ Good Wishes/ Vibes etc are appreciated in adavance!
I will be back here Tues or Weds and will fill you in....