Babydoll
Blue Crack Addict
yolland said:
Yes but on the other hand, he is able to draw upon a kind of idealized and inspired memory of who she was, and that has its own rewards. My father died suddenly on my 16th birthday, and while I often feel sad that he never lived to see his children bloom into adults, nor his beautiful grandchildren, he is remembered by all of us with a kind of unqualified affection that in truth wouldn't have been possible...B]
true that. when asked about her, he says "I dont remember my mother much, we never talked about her after she died." so in his heart, he prolly has an idealized relationship that is at least one aspect of his life he doesn't want shared with the rest of the world since its sacred to him.