I hated So Cruel the first time I heard it. I thought it was slow and boring and too long. Then I got into it and I really like it. It's simple but nice. Reminds me of relationships I've been in. That song could totally be about me.
Just because I can relate to some of the lyrics doesn't stop it from being a boring, plodding, over-wrought song that goes nowhere.
OH FUCK YES, THE FLY.
Here we goooo.