Lara Mullen said:
wolfeden, when a family member of yours is shot in the head by the ruc with a plastic bullet and has part of their brain removed leaving them with epilepsy and a limp for the rest of their life, when another family member lived in more than 15 houses due to the troubles and is left with a scar on their head after a grown man chased her into a barbed wire fence and left death threats at their house, when you've lived in a country that you can't even go shopping in without having your bags searched (even when your a child) or being evacuated from a building due to a bomb scare ppl wouldn't be so pro-violence. I don't understand how people who haven't lived through that could even be so strongly for such a situation like that. (That's not directed at you, just folk in general who would have been pro-violence.)
*nods*
Aye, I know. It's the truths you're telling that I had to go out and learn for myself, and as stupid as this sounds I never had questioned it -- until that moment of the movie.
We had several immigrant Irish, distant cousins and friends thereof staying with us at times, not always here legally, and some of them had stories like yours and worse, of people's doors being kicked down in the middle of the night, families killed. One described a "plastic bullet" for me once; it sounds inane, until you find out the thing is the size of a toilet-paper tube and can blind or maim someone as badly as any other projectile...
A friend of mine and I had even made a pact. If our lives were still as crap as they were when we were 15, once we turned 18 we were going to "go back home and join the IRA".
How ridiculous does that sound now. Two
Americans, thinking they even had the right (or would have been accepted, for chrissake) to go become a part of this in another country... John Walker Lindh, anyone?
To my own ends... Yes, I still have a sticker on my truck that reads 26+6=1, but it doesn't mean I believe a single drop more of anyone's blood spilled towards that goal will ever help.
My own family situation even mirrored Bono's, a little... my grandparents had a "mixed" Catholic/Protestant marriage and while here in America it wasn't nearly as controversial, it still garnered a good share of strangeness.
It's a mess, but it's a mess that goes back a lot further than 1916, or 1847, and it's gone so much deeper than "Brits out of Ireland" or "Catholics vs Protestants".. and bringing the thread back to R&H.. I never understood any of it, until that moment of the movie made me go find out for myself. That it was 17 years ago.... makes my head spin.