I REALLY wish GAY guys would STOP it.

diamond · 07-26-2002, 03:03 AM

Just becuz I have nice shoulders and sing OK..gives YOU NO right, whatsoever to make assumptions..
Thank you.

I would rather sleep w my exwife..just barely.. HOWEVER-I choose to RUN from BOTH

Thank You-
Diamond

Klodomir · 07-26-2002, 05:50 AM

Awa' an bile yer heid.

CannibalisticArtist · 07-26-2002, 06:40 AM

stop going to gay bars?

DrTeeth · 07-26-2002, 06:45 AM

I know how you feel; I have the same with straight women.

No wait, they have that problem with me...

Oh well

Angela Harlem · 07-26-2002, 07:21 AM

Does it bother you more than if a woman does it?

Basstrap · 07-26-2002, 07:36 AM

Not long ago, I was walking down the street and this guy comes up to me who I knew was gay even before he talked to me.

he says to me, in the stereotypical gay voice

"boy! aren't we gorgeous? where are you going"

This has never happened before so as you can imagine I was shocked...mostly by the forwardness. I was creeped out!
so I say...."ummm...yeah...I'm going this way now..."

dude follows me!!

so I slip into a bank and wait a sec before going back.

-----------------

Here's the thing.
If a pretty lass had done that I would feel better and I would be very flattered. However, all my alarm systems would go off and my guard would kinda go up. Why is she doing this? She must have some underlying motive.
But bottom line...though I would be shocked I would not be creeped out.

How can I explain this?

I dunno
I think about the gay lifestyle and I get a little grossed out, as immature as I know that is. But just that image and thinking that that is what he desires with me...it all makes me very nautious to tell you the sad truth. (no I cannot spell)
and many of them are sooo forward, they need to relax, act like any other member of the social fabric.
The thing is, a sensible girl will not do that, and I will not be genuinely interested in most girls who are willing to do such a thing to a stranger on the street.

anyway...

thats ma speel

Gina Marie · 07-26-2002, 07:47 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by diamond
Just becuz I have nice shoulders and sing OK..gives YOU NO right, whatsoever to make assumptions..
Thank you.

Oh well, I guess they can just sense that your ego is in need of some boosting

Is this thread supposed to be 'funny'?

DrTeeth · 07-26-2002, 08:20 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Gina Marie
Is this thread supposed to be 'funny'?

I thought my part in this thread was very funny

Laura M · 07-26-2002, 08:21 AM

I have nothing wrong with gay people but I hate when famous people decide to tell the nation they are gay JUST before they release their single- I dont understand- why should this make a difference????- its not like straight ppl boast about being straight- i just dont think its right

I remember a girl came onto my once and she was *VERY* forward and was practically sitting on my lap-i ignored her and then she got off with my ex b/f who i was going out with at the time......then i stopped going out with him.....

diamond · 07-26-2002, 08:35 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by DrTeeth

I thought my part in this thread was very funny

Dr Teeth-
Yours and Basstraps replies were funny.

My exp was ironic..thats all

Umm and I do find it uncomfortable if any gender approahes and is TOO forward..

DB9

**Bonochick** · 07-26-2002, 10:30 AM

One of my closest male friends is gay, and he is a total sweetheart. I love being friends with him. I love looking at fashion magazines with him and checkin' out boys together!!

DrTeeth · 07-26-2002, 11:23 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Bonochick
One of my closest male friends is gay, and he is a total sweetheart. I love being friends with him. I love looking at fashion magazines with him and checkin' out boys together!!

Yep, and he's no "threat" to you is he?

TylerDurden · 07-26-2002, 01:25 PM

Heh. Ive been chatted up by gay guys before. I kinda enjoy it. Its funny, and a compliment, they look for different things a girl looks for, so its a different kinda compliment, its kind of a role reversal, I imagine its like being a girl and having a very forward guy coming onto you, you're the girl for the night. I don't know how to explain it, but Im 100% straight, but have no problem with gay guys coming on to me, as long as they accept the 'thanks, but no thanks'. Its happened 3 or 4 times and Ive never had a problem. And its always been a funny little interlude on the night.
I don't care if someone - regardless of sex - tells you they think you are good looking, cute, whatever, its a great little boost for the night, and if you've ever been to a gay club, you've been to a party.

~LadyLemon~ · 07-26-2002, 01:45 PM

Several of my best friends are gay.

Basstrap · 07-26-2002, 01:54 PM

I meant nothing funny by my reply, diamond
It was a serious commentary on a situation I was in

I'm not against gay people I was just freaked out by this episode.
I know its immature for me to be creeped by it...but its true...it's something I should perhaps deal with

kobayashi · 07-26-2002, 01:57 PM

*best uncomfortable costanza voice
i don't think we should really be discussing this.

Basstrap · 07-26-2002, 02:01 PM

*best kramer voice

BUT IT'S FREE YOUR MIND, GEORGE!!! THINK ABOUT IT!!

*falls down and hits head

kobayashi · 07-26-2002, 02:07 PM

*best costanza nervous look around.

therulz · 07-26-2002, 03:00 PM

I think there is a bit of humor in this thread...I am not quite sure which image I find funnier....Diamond singing (do you sing love tunes or U2?) and being ogled by a stalker who was probably imagining him nekkked with those great shoulders or basstrap picking up a stray while out for a walk? Bass....do you a saucer of milk on the porch too? MEOWWWW.....Just kidding...I think your problem is with people in general invading your space and assuming something out of you...in general...Women <almost> never do that to a hot guy...not if they want to get to know him.

**Sicy** · 07-26-2002, 04:34 PM

For one thing diamond.. I dont really think this thread is all that appropriate, and if I get complaints I'll close it.

But I know a few gay people.. Where I dance there's this guy tommy that's gay.. he's a teacher actually, and he is absolutely hilarious.. I love that guy! He is so open about it he doesnt care what people think and I think that's cool.

Last nite he kept drooling over this tall blonde..

and everyone was laughing cuz he was being so obvious.. and the guy was just kinda lookin at him funny.. ya had to be there.

07-26-2002, 03:03 AM	#1
diamond ONE love, blood, life Join Date: May 2002 Location: Tempe, Az USA Posts: 12,856 Local Time: 05:56 PM	I REALLY wish GAY guys would STOP it. Just becuz I have nice shoulders and sing OK..gives YOU NO right, whatsoever to make assumptions.. Thank you. I would rather sleep w my exwife..just barely.. HOWEVER-I choose to RUN from BOTH Thank You- Diamond __________________

07-26-2002, 05:50 AM	#2
Klodomir Refugee Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Denmark Posts: 1,198 Local Time: 01:56 AM	Awa' an bile yer heid. __________________

07-26-2002, 10:30 AM	#11
Bonochick Halloweenhead Forum Moderator Join Date: Nov 2000 Location: Cherry Lane Posts: 40,819 Local Time: 08:56 PM	One of my closest male friends is gay, and he is a total sweetheart. I love being friends with him. I love looking at fashion magazines with him and checkin' out boys together!! __________________ "Knight in shining Zubaz." Bonochick [at] interference.com

07-26-2002, 01:57 PM	#16
kobayashi Rock n' Roll Doggie VIP PASS Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: the ether Posts: 5,142 Local Time: 08:56 PM	*best uncomfortable costanza voice i don't think we should really be discussing this. __________________ im the candyman. and the candyman is back.

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kobayashi Rock n' Roll Doggie VIP PASS Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: the ether Posts: 5,142 Local Time: 08:56 PM	*best costanza nervous look around. __________________ im the candyman. and the candyman is back.

07-26-2002, 06:40 AM	#3
CannibalisticArtist War Child Join Date: Nov 2001 Location: West Coast babyeee Posts: 511 Local Time: 04:56 PM	stop going to gay bars?

07-26-2002, 06:45 AM	#4
DrTeeth Rock n' Roll Doggie Band-aid Join Date: Sep 2000 Location: The Q continuum Posts: 4,770 Local Time: 01:56 AM	I know how you feel; I have the same with straight women. No wait, they have that problem with me... Oh well

07-26-2002, 07:21 AM	#5
Angela Harlem Jesus Online Join Date: Dec 1969 Location: a glass castle Posts: 30,163 Local Time: 11:56 AM	Does it bother you more than if a woman does it?

07-26-2002, 07:36 AM	#6
Basstrap ONE love, blood, life Join Date: Jul 2000 Posts: 10,726 Local Time: 10:26 PM	Not long ago, I was walking down the street and this guy comes up to me who I knew was gay even before he talked to me. he says to me, in the stereotypical gay voice "boy! aren't we gorgeous? where are you going" This has never happened before so as you can imagine I was shocked...mostly by the forwardness. I was creeped out! so I say...."ummm...yeah...I'm going this way now..." dude follows me!! so I slip into a bank and wait a sec before going back. ----------------- Here's the thing. If a pretty lass had done that I would feel better and I would be very flattered. However, all my alarm systems would go off and my guard would kinda go up. Why is she doing this? She must have some underlying motive. But bottom line...though I would be shocked I would not be creeped out. How can I explain this? I dunno I think about the gay lifestyle and I get a little grossed out, as immature as I know that is. But just that image and thinking that that is what he desires with me...it all makes me very nautious to tell you the sad truth. (no I cannot spell) and many of them are sooo forward, they need to relax, act like any other member of the social fabric. The thing is, a sensible girl will not do that, and I will not be genuinely interested in most girls who are willing to do such a thing to a stranger on the street. anyway... thats ma speel

07-26-2002, 08:21 AM	#9
Laura M Blue Crack Addict Join Date: Jun 2002 Posts: 18,934 Local Time: 02:56 AM	I have nothing wrong with gay people but I hate when famous people decide to tell the nation they are gay JUST before they release their single- I dont understand- why should this make a difference????- its not like straight ppl boast about being straight- i just dont think its right I remember a girl came onto my once and she was VERY forward and was practically sitting on my lap-i ignored her and then she got off with my ex b/f who i was going out with at the time......then i stopped going out with him.....

07-26-2002, 01:25 PM	#13
TylerDurden War Child Join Date: Nov 2000 Location: Sydney, Australia Posts: 940 Local Time: 12:56 AM	Heh. Ive been chatted up by gay guys before. I kinda enjoy it. Its funny, and a compliment, they look for different things a girl looks for, so its a different kinda compliment, its kind of a role reversal, I imagine its like being a girl and having a very forward guy coming onto you, you're the girl for the night. I don't know how to explain it, but Im 100% straight, but have no problem with gay guys coming on to me, as long as they accept the 'thanks, but no thanks'. Its happened 3 or 4 times and Ive never had a problem. And its always been a funny little interlude on the night. I don't care if someone - regardless of sex - tells you they think you are good looking, cute, whatever, its a great little boost for the night, and if you've ever been to a gay club, you've been to a party.

07-26-2002, 01:45 PM	#14
~LadyLemon~ I Serve Larry's Stick Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Akron Posts: 7,392 Local Time: 08:56 PM	Several of my best friends are gay.

07-26-2002, 01:54 PM	#15
Basstrap ONE love, blood, life Join Date: Jul 2000 Posts: 10,726 Local Time: 10:26 PM	I meant nothing funny by my reply, diamond It was a serious commentary on a situation I was in I'm not against gay people I was just freaked out by this episode. I know its immature for me to be creeped by it...but its true...it's something I should perhaps deal with

07-26-2002, 02:01 PM	#17
Basstrap ONE love, blood, life Join Date: Jul 2000 Posts: 10,726 Local Time: 10:26 PM	best kramer voice BUT IT'S FREE YOUR MIND, GEORGE!!! THINK ABOUT IT!! falls down and hits head

07-26-2002, 03:00 PM	#19
therulz Acrobat Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Fountain Hills, Arizona , USA Posts: 412 Local Time: 05:56 PM	YOU KNOW> I think there is a bit of humor in this thread...I am not quite sure which image I find funnier....Diamond singing (do you sing love tunes or U2?) and being ogled by a stalker who was probably imagining him nekkked with those great shoulders or basstrap picking up a stray while out for a walk? Bass....do you a saucer of milk on the porch too? MEOWWWW.....Just kidding...I think your problem is with people in general invading your space and assuming something out of you...in general...Women <almost> never do that to a hot guy...not if they want to get to know him.

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07-26-2002, 04:34 PM	#20
Sicy Sizzlin' Sicilian Forum Administrator Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Bay Area, CA Posts: 69,349 Local Time: 04:56 PM	For one thing diamond.. I dont really think this thread is all that appropriate, and if I get complaints I'll close it. But I know a few gay people.. Where I dance there's this guy tommy that's gay.. he's a teacher actually, and he is absolutely hilarious.. I love that guy! He is so open about it he doesnt care what people think and I think that's cool. Last nite he kept drooling over this tall blonde.. and everyone was laughing cuz he was being so obvious.. and the guy was just kinda lookin at him funny.. ya had to be there. __________________ __________________