dazzledbylight
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hi ......
Some either freakishly odd accident happened to my dad in the Nursing Home or worse and we don't know yet.
I went to visit my parents. My sis and i take turns- so they usually get seen by one of us each week. I'm on the phone to my mom 2-3 mtimes aweek. They are on different floors/buildings b/c dad was always worse off physically than our Mom.
They were both both mentally acute, until my dad had a serious stroke...he retains certain cognitive functions ...but ever since his Short Term Memory Loss now usually down to a 2 min - 1/2 min cycle of forgetting/starting over.....those functions aronly there in that brief window and get screwed up because of the STML.
My dad has also been blind in one eye the past ? 30 yrs.
Anyway I walk into his room this past weds night.....and he has a "classic"[as think of comicstrips] black eye. around his Good Eye.
I clamp down any reaction. I ak if he remebers how he got it ....no. Can he see....yes {thank the Powers!}. Is he in any different /extra pain....no {thank goodness}.
After i'm done visiting i go to see the people at the front desk.
so far.they've filed a report....ongoing... b/c no one knows what happened. They are collecting statements from everyone. It happened on the 28th jan.
They tell me they left a message on my sis's machine. It's way late wehn i get home . I e-m my sis later the next day {yesterday-thurs]
-------------- didn't want to get bounced out..con';t
so she called me last night.
SHe DIDN"T get any message. turned out they left it on HER Emergency contact # {one of herf friends}. she found that out last night.
SHe was kinda mad that I didn';t call her yesterday....morning or that night. I got in at 1AM.......didn't want to wake her. But there was somet5hing elese holding me back..............now as we discussed it/
one I was under some extra double stress because of 2 things in my living/hiome situation that were coming up today. SO this on top of it.
Our dad can't up on his own and he can't stand ,, {unhealed broken leg re osteoperosis] ...he can wheel himself arounbd in a chair ....bur he has no reall occasion to fall...And has guard rails on bed to hold him in
SO is it a freak accident {i hope} or was there some kind of abuse? by another patient {it happens-- but i''ve only read aboput it in apers} or...worse staff.....
This place IS concerned one of the best in the whole USA ...........i think i jusr closed my self off to THAT possiblity sterday and the night before...................
who want sot thiubnk about THAT!
so P{lease think/pray that it turned OUT to be an freak accident. and not abuse..........
thanks.. s in advance.
have to get out of where i am..sorry for missed typos...
Some either freakishly odd accident happened to my dad in the Nursing Home or worse and we don't know yet.
I went to visit my parents. My sis and i take turns- so they usually get seen by one of us each week. I'm on the phone to my mom 2-3 mtimes aweek. They are on different floors/buildings b/c dad was always worse off physically than our Mom.
They were both both mentally acute, until my dad had a serious stroke...he retains certain cognitive functions ...but ever since his Short Term Memory Loss now usually down to a 2 min - 1/2 min cycle of forgetting/starting over.....those functions aronly there in that brief window and get screwed up because of the STML.
My dad has also been blind in one eye the past ? 30 yrs.
Anyway I walk into his room this past weds night.....and he has a "classic"[as think of comicstrips] black eye. around his Good Eye.
I clamp down any reaction. I ak if he remebers how he got it ....no. Can he see....yes {thank the Powers!}. Is he in any different /extra pain....no {thank goodness}.
After i'm done visiting i go to see the people at the front desk.
so far.they've filed a report....ongoing... b/c no one knows what happened. They are collecting statements from everyone. It happened on the 28th jan.
They tell me they left a message on my sis's machine. It's way late wehn i get home . I e-m my sis later the next day {yesterday-thurs]
-------------- didn't want to get bounced out..con';t
so she called me last night.
SHe DIDN"T get any message. turned out they left it on HER Emergency contact # {one of herf friends}. she found that out last night.
SHe was kinda mad that I didn';t call her yesterday....morning or that night. I got in at 1AM.......didn't want to wake her. But there was somet5hing elese holding me back..............now as we discussed it/
one I was under some extra double stress because of 2 things in my living/hiome situation that were coming up today. SO this on top of it.
Our dad can't up on his own and he can't stand ,, {unhealed broken leg re osteoperosis] ...he can wheel himself arounbd in a chair ....bur he has no reall occasion to fall...And has guard rails on bed to hold him in
SO is it a freak accident {i hope} or was there some kind of abuse? by another patient {it happens-- but i''ve only read aboput it in apers} or...worse staff.....
This place IS concerned one of the best in the whole USA ...........i think i jusr closed my self off to THAT possiblity sterday and the night before...................
who want sot thiubnk about THAT!
so P{lease think/pray that it turned OUT to be an freak accident. and not abuse..........
thanks.. s in advance.
have to get out of where i am..sorry for missed typos...
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