Sexual Dreams about a co worker

dazzlingamy · 10-13-2007, 11:55 AM

So I work with this guy, quite close, we're in the same room together, and the last few nights i've had these sexual dreams about him

Now, im happily in a relationship, we still have romance and all that, no uhm 'sex droughtrs' or whatever they're called to make me feel all pent up or something..

and my co worker is someone i'd never go for in a million years we get along great as friends, but i'm not attracted to him, well not when we're together, but asleep i've had some pretty WILD dreams about him.

Why? am i going crazy seeing i don't even find him attractive when i'm awake?!
Have other people had this problem? Please don't tell me i'm the only one.

It's freaking me out!

EdgeIsTooSexy · 10-13-2007, 04:18 PM

its probably just a crazy dream

You portray people in your dreams however you want them to be so hes probably a better version of himself then.

Mr. BAW · 10-13-2007, 09:37 PM

I'm still trying to figure our why my parents moved without telling me and leaving me naked on the front lawn when I was in the 8th grade....

Angela Harlem · 10-14-2007, 02:13 AM

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Originally posted by Mr. BAW
I'm still trying to figure our why my parents moved without telling me and leaving me naked on the front lawn when I was in the 8th grade....

exactly!

i don't buy anything in dreams. i think they're random ingredients in your subconscious brain which are thrown together to make a consciousness-satisfying stream of events or a scenario. how on earth can they possibly mean anything??

dazzlingamy · 10-14-2007, 03:53 AM

LOL

im just hoping it not some subcnscious thing thats all....telling me my truuuuuuue feeling or some shit!

Earnie Shavers · 10-16-2007, 12:17 AM

No big deal, I've had half a dozen 'cameos' from people at work over the years.

absintheminded · 10-16-2007, 01:41 AM

What if you're a girl and you have sexual dreams about other girls?

Does that mean you're bisexual or gay?

Lally1011 · 10-16-2007, 01:53 AM

I'll subscribe to the random ingredient theory. My dreams are usually comprised of recent events or thoughts. If I dream of something or someone from a long time ago, it's probably because that was tied into something that happened within the past few days.

mysterious_jen · 10-16-2007, 04:13 AM

ive been having hawt dreams about my boss its kinda scary ! mabey its a power attracted thing..

it doesnt help when you are having a sex drought does it , your subconcious goes for anything that moves

cobl04 · 10-16-2007, 08:19 AM

Umm since when do I work in Geelong??

oh zing!

fly so high! · 10-16-2007, 09:29 AM

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Originally posted by dazzlingamy
So I work with this guy, quite close, we're in the same room together, and the last few nights i've had these sexual dreams about him

Now, im happily in a relationship, we still have romance and all that, no uhm 'sex droughtrs' or whatever they're called to make me feel all pent up or something..

and my co worker is someone i'd never go for in a million years we get along great as friends, but i'm not attracted to him, well not when we're together, but asleep i've had some pretty WILD dreams about him.

Why? am i going crazy seeing i don't even find him attractive when i'm awake?!
Have other people had this problem? Please don't tell me i'm the only one.

It's freaking me out!

This has actually happened to me twice:

First time.....I dreamt i slept with my History teacher back in high school, this guy was fugly, but in the dream i was in love with him and we f*** like crazy......weird as i could spew up at the thought of being with him when i was awake.

2nd Time: I dreamt that i married my boss at the time, i was not long married to my hubby when i dreamt that one......this guy was gorgeous, a really nice guy but i did not have any feelings about him when i was awake.

Does anyone have dream book? I can't find my one, i'm sure it covers that somewhere!

Hinder · 10-20-2007, 01:57 PM

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Originally posted by Mr. BAW
I'm still trying to figure our why my parents moved without telling me and leaving me naked on the front lawn when I was in the 8th grade....

Sorry. That just struck me as funny.

I dunno, I'm still trying to figure out why I dreamed of my brother and I in a dark hallway surrounded by weird looking circus animals when I was a little kid. Amongst other things. Don't put too much stock into it. It's just a dream.

Canadiens1131 · 10-20-2007, 05:40 PM

Dreams happen.

JanuaryStar · 10-21-2007, 06:31 AM

Dreams can be so crazy sometimes. You find yourself dreaming about topics or persons you normally wouldn't even think about a lot. But that's how the mind works, I guess. It's like when before going to bed you're watching a TV programme or listening to some kind of music. It's most likely you will dream about those things in a weird way because that's how your mind progresses things which happened during the day. I don't think you should pay a lot of attention to these dreams. I know you're feeling uncomfortable having them, but usually in dreams things aren't portrayed the way you want them to be. They're actually portrayed the opposite way, most of the times.

Vincent Vega · 10-21-2007, 11:43 AM

From this thread I take it's an Australian thing.

Bono's shades · 10-23-2007, 09:53 PM

When I have "those" kinds of dreams, it's aways with someone I don't recognize from real life. Either that or I just can't remember what they looked like when I wake up.

AtomicBono · 10-24-2007, 01:45 AM

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Originally posted by Bono's shades
When I have "those" kinds of dreams, it's aways with someone I don't recognize from real life. Either that or I just can't remember what they looked like when I wake up.

same here...I've had dreams about kissing/cuddling people I know, but when I actually have sex dreams (which isn't too often), it tends to be with someone I don't know. Probably that's for the best because otherwise I'd wake up feeling awkward about someone

anyway, a dream could reflect how you really feel, but if it does then you'll know it. If your reaction is still WTF, then I wouldn't worry about it. I do have dreams that deal with things that I want or even my darkest fears, but the majority of the dreams I have probably don't mean anything, they're just odd sequences.

gman · 10-29-2007, 01:10 PM

Lets hope your not struck by de ja vu one day!!

10-13-2007, 11:55 AM	#1
dazzlingamy Refugee Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: The city of blinding lights and amazing coffee - Melbourne. Posts: 2,468 Local Time: 02:27 PM	Sexual Dreams about a co worker So I work with this guy, quite close, we're in the same room together, and the last few nights i've had these sexual dreams about him Now, im happily in a relationship, we still have romance and all that, no uhm 'sex droughtrs' or whatever they're called to make me feel all pent up or something.. and my co worker is someone i'd never go for in a million years we get along great as friends, but i'm not attracted to him, well not when we're together, but asleep i've had some pretty WILD dreams about him. Why? am i going crazy seeing i don't even find him attractive when i'm awake?! Have other people had this problem? Please don't tell me i'm the only one. It's freaking me out! __________________

10-13-2007, 04:18 PM	#2
EdgeIsTooSexy ONE love, blood, life Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 10,828 Local Time: 10:27 PM	its probably just a crazy dream You portray people in your dreams however you want them to be so hes probably a better version of himself then. __________________

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gman New Yorker Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: Highlands of Scotland Posts: 2,570 Local Time: 04:27 AM	Lets hope your not struck by de ja vu one day!! __________________

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Mr. BAW ONE love, blood, life Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Life's too short to drink cheap wine! Posts: 12,336 Local Time: 08:27 PM	I'm still trying to figure our why my parents moved without telling me and leaving me naked on the front lawn when I was in the 8th grade....

10-14-2007, 03:53 AM	#5
dazzlingamy Refugee Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: The city of blinding lights and amazing coffee - Melbourne. Posts: 2,468 Local Time: 02:27 PM	LOL im just hoping it not some subcnscious thing thats all....telling me my truuuuuuue feeling or some shit!

10-16-2007, 12:17 AM	#6
Earnie Shavers Rock n' Roll Doggie VIP PASS Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: London/Sydney Posts: 6,609 Local Time: 03:27 AM	No big deal, I've had half a dozen 'cameos' from people at work over the years.

10-16-2007, 01:41 AM	#7
absintheminded Acrobat Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 321 Local Time: 08:27 PM	What if you're a girl and you have sexual dreams about other girls? Does that mean you're bisexual or gay?

10-16-2007, 01:53 AM	#8
Lally1011 The Fly Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 272 Local Time: 03:27 AM	I'll subscribe to the random ingredient theory. My dreams are usually comprised of recent events or thoughts. If I dream of something or someone from a long time ago, it's probably because that was tied into something that happened within the past few days.

10-16-2007, 04:13 AM	#9
mysterious_jen Blue Crack Addict Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: U2 360 2010 DOWNUNDER Posts: 15,556 Local Time: 12:57 PM	ive been having hawt dreams about my boss its kinda scary ! mabey its a power attracted thing.. it doesnt help when you are having a sex drought does it , your subconcious goes for anything that moves

10-16-2007, 08:19 AM	#10
cobl04 45:33 Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: East Point to Shaolin Posts: 58,803 Local Time: 02:27 PM	Umm since when do I work in Geelong?? oh zing!

10-20-2007, 05:40 PM	#13
Canadiens1131 ONE love, blood, life Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 10,363 Local Time: 11:27 PM	Dreams happen.

10-21-2007, 06:31 AM	#14
JanuaryStar Rock n' Roll Doggie FOB Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: World of Dreams Posts: 9,159 Local Time: 05:27 AM	Dreams can be so crazy sometimes. You find yourself dreaming about topics or persons you normally wouldn't even think about a lot. But that's how the mind works, I guess. It's like when before going to bed you're watching a TV programme or listening to some kind of music. It's most likely you will dream about those things in a weird way because that's how your mind progresses things which happened during the day. I don't think you should pay a lot of attention to these dreams. I know you're feeling uncomfortable having them, but usually in dreams things aren't portrayed the way you want them to be. They're actually portrayed the opposite way, most of the times.

10-21-2007, 11:43 AM	#15
Vincent Vega Rock n' Roll Doggie ALL ACCESS Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Berlin Posts: 6,745 Local Time: 04:27 AM	From this thread I take it's an Australian thing.

10-23-2007, 09:53 PM	#16
Bono's shades Rock n' Roll Doggie VIP PASS Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: The back of beyond Posts: 5,047 Local Time: 09:27 PM	When I have "those" kinds of dreams, it's aways with someone I don't recognize from real life. Either that or I just can't remember what they looked like when I wake up.