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How do you confront a guy that you've been seeing about a personal ad that you saw for him online???
A long time ago (we're talking a long time ago), I had my own ad, and I used it on and off to meet guys. If I was seeing someone or just wasn't interested, I would take it down; when I was ready to get back out there, I'd put it back up.
When I was home sick the other day, I was a little worried that the last time I re-activated my ad, I never made it "hidden" again (since I am kinda/sorta seeing someone right now and also promised not to see other people--a bargain which, I am proud to say, I held up). So I went to the personals site to make sure my ad was hidden (it was--phew!), and then just for fun started looking at some ads for guys.
Imagine my shock when I found a personal ad for the guy I am supposed to be seeing--updated only a week earlier.
I haven't mentioned it to him yet and I'm not even sure if I should. First of all, the fact that I found it will make me look suspicious. Second of all, I know that guys have all kinds of stupid ideas and maybe one of his friends put it up for him or something--it is possible, I suppose, that he doesn't even know about it (slim possibility, but work with me here).
So now I'm in a major quandary. Do I mention it at all? What do I say?
(And I'm SURE it was him, too--it had his picture and all the info stated was definitely about him.)
A long time ago (we're talking a long time ago), I had my own ad, and I used it on and off to meet guys. If I was seeing someone or just wasn't interested, I would take it down; when I was ready to get back out there, I'd put it back up.
When I was home sick the other day, I was a little worried that the last time I re-activated my ad, I never made it "hidden" again (since I am kinda/sorta seeing someone right now and also promised not to see other people--a bargain which, I am proud to say, I held up). So I went to the personals site to make sure my ad was hidden (it was--phew!), and then just for fun started looking at some ads for guys.
Imagine my shock when I found a personal ad for the guy I am supposed to be seeing--updated only a week earlier.
I haven't mentioned it to him yet and I'm not even sure if I should. First of all, the fact that I found it will make me look suspicious. Second of all, I know that guys have all kinds of stupid ideas and maybe one of his friends put it up for him or something--it is possible, I suppose, that he doesn't even know about it (slim possibility, but work with me here).
So now I'm in a major quandary. Do I mention it at all? What do I say?
(And I'm SURE it was him, too--it had his picture and all the info stated was definitely about him.)