Joha_U2
Acrobat
I'm having a little bit of trouble. I'm just really confused over my relationship with my boyfriend since I've moved to another country. I should expand before I ask my question.
I've been dating "my first love" since June/July 2005. We met in Texas, but I've had to move to another country in December... I knew this even before we started dating, but we still decided to go on and date. We promised each other to keep the relationship going, even as a long distance relationship... we did all kinds of cute and amazing things before I left (including a time capsule, going to my first ever U2 concert, etc). He always promised me that he'd be waiting for me once I return to Texas, because his love for me was "so strong and real"... we also promised each other to write/call as often as possible.
However, things took a turn. He'd been writing emails to me every day until about January. Then he stopped, only writing twice or three times a week, saying he was staying at a friend's house (his friend's married) because going home made him really depressed, so he couldn't write often because he felt like he shouldn't ask his friend for his computer. He stopped calling too, saying it was too expensive... I still kept writing him emails every day and calling as often as my parents would allow.
The thing is, I got tired of this... the last email I got from him was on Saturday, and I haven't replied since then. I just feel like I'm the one giving without receiving anything... I swear I'd just be happy with him writing to me every night. I'm not asking for much, am I? Especially since he swore his love for me all the time...
I don't know how to explain, but our relationship was the best thing in the world. We never really fought and... yeah, it seemed like it was perfect. He even tolerated my obsession with U2! (heh) I know I love him. Now the question is, should I write to him or wait until he sends me another email? or what should I do to make him understand that I need to hear from him often (otherwise I get so depressed..)?
I guess I should mention he was having lots of trouble at home and work. He was really depressed and had some other problems since I left...
I've been dating "my first love" since June/July 2005. We met in Texas, but I've had to move to another country in December... I knew this even before we started dating, but we still decided to go on and date. We promised each other to keep the relationship going, even as a long distance relationship... we did all kinds of cute and amazing things before I left (including a time capsule, going to my first ever U2 concert, etc). He always promised me that he'd be waiting for me once I return to Texas, because his love for me was "so strong and real"... we also promised each other to write/call as often as possible.
However, things took a turn. He'd been writing emails to me every day until about January. Then he stopped, only writing twice or three times a week, saying he was staying at a friend's house (his friend's married) because going home made him really depressed, so he couldn't write often because he felt like he shouldn't ask his friend for his computer. He stopped calling too, saying it was too expensive... I still kept writing him emails every day and calling as often as my parents would allow.
The thing is, I got tired of this... the last email I got from him was on Saturday, and I haven't replied since then. I just feel like I'm the one giving without receiving anything... I swear I'd just be happy with him writing to me every night. I'm not asking for much, am I? Especially since he swore his love for me all the time...
I don't know how to explain, but our relationship was the best thing in the world. We never really fought and... yeah, it seemed like it was perfect. He even tolerated my obsession with U2! (heh) I know I love him. Now the question is, should I write to him or wait until he sends me another email? or what should I do to make him understand that I need to hear from him often (otherwise I get so depressed..)?
I guess I should mention he was having lots of trouble at home and work. He was really depressed and had some other problems since I left...