We Are All Stupid

[Pearl]

I was reading the Huffington Post about a book called "You Are Not So Smart" by David McRaney. Its all about how we all trick ourselves into believing we are smarter than we actually are, all for the sake of ego and surviving this world.

He has a blog that I've been reading and I am completely hooked! He admits to not being a psychologist, just a journalist fascinated with the subject. But the things he points out can really make you think.

Take this for example:

Any extended period of negative emotions can lead to you giving in to despair and accepting your fate. If you remain alone for a long time, you will decide loneliness is a fact of life and pass up opportunities to hang out with people. The loss of control in any situation will lead to this state. A study in 1976 by Langer and Rodin showed in nursing homes where conformity and passivity is encouraged and every whim is attended to, the health and well-being of the patients declines rapidly. If, instead, the people in these homes are given responsibilities and choices, they remain healthy and active. This research was repeated in prisons. Sure enough, just letting prisoners move furniture and control the television kept them from developing health problems and staging revolts. In homeless shelters where people can’t pick out their own beds or choose what to eat, the residents are less likely to try and get a job or find an apartment.
When you are able to succeed at easy tasks, hard tasks feel possible to accomplish. When you are unable to succeed at small tasks, everything seems harder.
Rats given the opportunity to escape electric shocks are half as likely to develop tumors than those who are forced to bear them. Rats already suffering from cancer will die faster if placed into the inescapable shock experiment.
Every day – your job, the government, your addiction, your depression, your money – you feel like you can’t control the forces affecting your fate. So, you stage microrevolts. You customize your ringtone, you paint your room, you collect stamps. You choose.
Choices, even small ones, can hold back the crushing weight of helplessness, but you can’t stop there. You must fight back your behavior and learn to fail with pride. Failing often is the only way to ever get the things you want out of life. Besides death, your destiny is not inescapable.

You Are Not So Smart

Anyway, I thought I'd share this with everyone.

[the iron horse]

Interesting read!

It reminded me of a song by Billy Currington:

"God is great, beer is good and People Are Crazy"


Thanks for the link.