WildHoneyAlways
Rock n' Roll Doggie FOB
I would answer honestly. There's no point in answering otherwise.
WildHoneyAlways said:I would answer honestly. There's no point in answering otherwise.
For Honor said:Well, you can ask the guy.
Everybody is so different...... it's hardly an issue of "the male perspective" and "the female perspective". Each person likes to be approached, or chase, in a different way.
For Honor said:True.... there is a rampant case of dishonesty in many people, males especially.
Good luck with your search.
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Here's a question for the ladies:
If a guy was up front and open about asking you a question about your relationship status or interest in him, how would you react?
mysticchild said:Why is it always up to the guy to say where the relationship is going or if there is even going to be one?? If I ask a guy out, I am desperate. How can guy stell if a woman is desperate or not? What do men see in a woman that turns them on?? Do men like natural women or the Paris Hilton type? I am taking an eating disorder addiction class and we were getting up in class showing pictures of advertisements and just picutres of what women look like today. I got up an dshowed the cover of People magazine with Linsay Lohan on the cover. She is sooooooo skinny and anorexic looking. There is this nice lookin gyoung guy in the class, who is an ass. He said she looked hot!!! That is sick and men love women who are sick like that??? He is twisted and apparently has no respect for women at all!! So men, what do you think of Linsay??
Windmilllane said:
Lindsay is one f**cked up skank.
Men are into looks. That's the first thing they notice in women. That's why women are so self-conscience of how they look. Women feel forced to look like models. That's why most women suffer from eating disorders. They don't want to look fat and ugly or men won't be interested in them.
Women also look for looks, but they also look for other things like confidence, sense of humor, personality, etc. But looks is very important to women.
Guys look for one thing: looks. If a girl isn't pretty, they have no interest in them whatsoever.
Men are dogs. But it's our nature to be dogs.
That's my honest opinion. You may not agree with it, but it's my opinion.
Windmilllane said:
Men are into looks. That's the first thing they notice in women. That's why women are so self-conscience of how they look. Women feel forced to look like models. That's why most women suffer from eating disorders. They don't want to look fat and ugly or men won't be interested in them.
Women also look for looks, but they also look for other things like confidence, sense of humor, personality, etc. But looks is very important to women.
Guys look for one thing: looks. If a girl isn't pretty, they have no interest in them whatsoever.
Men are dogs. But it's our nature to be dogs.
That's my honest opinion. You may not agree with it, but it's my opinion.
Windmilllane said:
Men are dogs.
For Honor said:Women give me bones, what can I say
VintagePunk said:Way to derail my thread, people.
LarryMullen's_POPAngel said:
Zoo Confessionals: Home of the Thread Derailers
It's got a nice ring to it.
Windmilllane said:
Lindsay is one f**cked up skank.
Men are into looks. That's the first thing they notice in women. That's why women are so self-conscience of how they look. Women feel forced to look like models. That's why most women suffer from eating disorders. They don't want to look fat and ugly or men won't be interested in them.
Women also look for looks, but they also look for other things like confidence, sense of humor, personality, etc. But looks is very important to women.
Guys look for one thing: looks. If a girl isn't pretty, they have no interest in them whatsoever.
Men are dogs. But it's our nature to be dogs.
That's my honest opinion. You may not agree with it, but it's my opinion.
VintagePunk said:
It does.
Hope things are going better for you, btw.
girlhappy said:Back to the topic. I just tried to meet up with this guy and i did my best(I"ve sent him about 3 invitations). i just got text message :i cant. What can i say?I am thrilled. And it just confirms my theory:if you show your interest and affection openly....here is the result. And btw.I know this guy for 6 years and we are some kind of "friends".
For Honor said:
it doesn't sound like you know him very well, if you have "known" each other for 6 years.
I think you need to get a new "friend". There are people who respond to "showing affection and interest openly". Does that make sense?
If you've known this guy for so long, and your strategy isn't working, then something needs to change. It's him or you- your call.
WildHoneyAlways said:
And some of the nicest guys I know have trouble showing affection. Don't write them all off.
WildHoneyAlways said:
I don't see why she has to stop being friends with this guy. If it doesn't work out they can at least still be friends.
And some of the nicest guys I know have trouble showing affection. Don't write them all off.
I think that he knows that i care, but he just wants to keep his distance and come and go whenever he wants. He is jealous when i have a boyfriend but he just wants to keep me by his side. I feel like i am in his closet sometimes. I believe this is not exactly the right example for this thread, but still... You know, its hard to move on when you feel it is your soulmate and perfect match. But obviously, he is not my soulmate.
girlhappy said:The thing is: I cant figure it out. There are probably two possibilities: one is that he cares but because he is emotionally retarded he cant do anything about it. Second: he is just playing games and enjoying the ride. (meaning: selfish bastard). Sometimes i am so angry, sometimes i feel sorry for him. Right now i think the best thing would be stay away. But is it the right solution? You cant solve the problem if you just run away from it.
girlhappy said:No. his faults would be: telling me that he is one of the 3 most important men in my life, telling me that we have a "date" instead of just going to gallery, etc. I have 100 other examples like that. I am questioning his morality for months. Iif he is doing this like - intentionally, that is called seduction. And if he doesnt want to take the responsibility and just wants to keep me hanging - i think it is not really "innocent behaviour". The thing is: I cant figure it out. There are probably two possibilities: one is that he cares but because he is emotionally retarded he cant do anything about it. Second: he is just playing games and enjoying the ride. (meaning: selfish bastard). Sometimes i am so angry, sometimes i feel sorry for him. Right now i think the best thing would be stay away. But is it the right solution? You cant solve the problem if you just run away from it.
girlhappy said:No. his faults would be: telling me that he is one of the 3 most important men in my life,
VintagePunk said:
Have you asked him what the meaning is behind these vague comments, or is it a situation where it would be uncomfortable to ask him, and possibly result in ending the friendship?