Molly Bloom said:
that stinks... why did he get custody? You seem lovely!!
what has she been doing to bug you?
i find out that a lot of people use me to get to my guy and what they think he can get them...
it makes me feel so bad... like i am not good enough to like on my own... and i know that isnt true... it has just made me a rather reclusive gal... i dont let people get too close anymore which is sad as i am so trusting and love everyone...
Thanks.
He and I are very different. With me, it's 'what you see is what you get.' If I'm in a bad mood, or displeased, you'll know it. Kind of a 'heart on my sleeve' kind of person. I can't help it, that's just the way I am. Him, he's more submersive and manipulative. He can put on a good show for people when he wants/needs to. So, in many cases, I think, I came out looking like the bitch, and he twisted things so that that became reality for many people. I didn't go around badmouthing him when we split, but sadly, I found out later that he did just that to me. Oh well, live and learn. If those people choose not to look beneath the surface and see things how they really are, it's their loss.
I know who my real friends are. Something like that shows you. And there are members of his own family who are closer to me than they are to him, so that ought to say something.
I'm sorry to hear of the superficiality you've run into with regard to your boyfriend and apparent friends. It would tend to make you suspicious of others. You two have been together for a long time, right? I'm really sorry, but I'm not exactly the most informed about new/indie music, but I take it he's quite well known?