Canadiens1131
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Oh man he heaped it all onto one moment.
This should be interesting
This should be interesting
redhotswami said:of course she has feelings for you too! that must've been so nice to her her affirmation.
i'm very proud of you for trusting you intuition and for going for it. well done It is good that you two parted ways for the evening, and gave each other some space. You both need a good nights rest
I'm very happy for you. This is excellent! Keep trusting your heart.
I still wanna know what the hell quiet place you were talking about. I have not known that place to be quiet but maybe that is because I was there.
Lancemc said:You know, I never believed in fate or destiny or anything like that, but I do believe in God, and I believe strongly that God does infact give signs in times of confusion and despair. That feeling I had last night when she was hear, I have no doubt in my heart that was God telling me it was time. I have no other way of explaining it.
Oh, and the quiet place? Yeah, it's practically on the other side of the soccer field along the tree line.
redhotswami said:
I figured you did! I know exactly what you were trying to say when you just said it felt right at this time, and you were feeling the pull. I get those feelings too, that's why was so happy you went with it!
And AH, by the soccer field. I should've guessed. my experiences in Tenley have been anything but quiet! But I'm glad you found a great spot to be together. It'll come in handy for late night spring time makeout sessions
Lancemc said:Then she told me she's also had feelings for me for a while.
VintagePunk said:
I do believe an "I told you so" is in order here. But I won't say it.
Lancemc said:
Ok, ok, you're allowed to brag a little.
But I'm not going to start celebrating yet. I have to be extremely careful from this point out. She did mention she might not be ready for another relationship so soon after this one. And then there's also that potentially very messy breakup she still in front of her.
She's going to call me when she gots done class today around 3:30 so we can talk about this again. I just want to ask her two things really. I want to know if she's interested in pursuing a relationship at some point, and I want to know what she plans to do about Jordan.
So, we'll see where things go from there. But I'm going to make it as clear as possible that she can and should take as much time as she needs, and that I don't want to pressure her in any uncomfortable way.
blueeyedgirl said:I've only skimmed this thread really, but geez, you've created one shitheap of a problem. What's going on here is infidelity basically, and emotional infidelity is more insidious and destructive than any amount of shagging. I feel sorry for the boyfriend. Perhaps someone should consider how he is going to feel when he finds out what's going on behind his back.
blueeyedgirl said:I've only skimmed this thread really, but geez, you've created one shitheap of a problem. What's going on here is infidelity basically, and emotional infidelity is more insidious and destructive than any amount of shagging. I feel sorry for the boyfriend. Perhaps someone should consider how he is going to feel when he finds out what's going on behind his back.
UberBeaver said:Challenge him to a duel!