As this was a private matter to start with, that blew up WAY beyond it's original intent, and became emotionally charged ... I'm going to keep this brief.
Both sides (AH&S/myself) of this story have made errors, made assumptions, and in some cases even been extremely rude or abrasive. This is a matter between mods and I will not get into specifics. This of course. was after the case of the same two mods starting a 'mod resignation' thread in the private super mod forum over a week earlier... on their own. In the end, accounts were deactivated - NOT banned, hoping that the situation could later be resolved peacefully. I still have not heard at all from Salome on any of this, even when I PMd him prior to any of this going on. Angela HArlem and I have been exchanging email, and I have extended my apology for my part in the matter. Nothing was announced to the forum, nor were the two of their accounts removed from the moderating team listings yet... because at the time no decision on that had been made. In the same (last) email I sent I openly welcomed both of them to continue as members if they wished... in her last reply following that, she made no mention of that at all. The offer is still open and neither of them are 'banned'. All either one has to do is say the word, and I will reactivate their accounts.
Every story has two sides, both can justify their actions/reactions.