For Honor
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The book is ...... okay.
It is good for women who feel bad about themselves, or need a boost. I know a few who could benefit from it.
In fact, I find myselg telling those girls the same thing that are in the book, essentially. Especially the "PS" line, and similar.
However, I agree about honesty. Realtionships aren't really about emotion. It's just easier to say they are. Fear, inadequacy, lonliness, desparation, whatever.
what makes for real relationships is two people who really want to be in a relationship...
(with each other)
If a girl asked me out because she thought I am a good catch, I'd congratulate her. But only because I wouldn't be surprised if she did the same if I were in her shoes.
^that will take some explaining later, perhaps
As far as asking people out.....
neither way give you more control, as far as I'm concerned. It always takes two people to be in a relationship, and taht doesn't change. Some people have perferences, some people are more easily influenced, some like to be swept off their feet. But really, I don't think it matters what you "feel".
I believe it is the reasoning behind those feelings, the structure of it all, that matters most.
For example:
infatuation over someone who always is there for you and gives you what you need is one thing
infatuation over someone who doesn't return your calls and you don't understand why they don't want to be with you is another.
It is good for women who feel bad about themselves, or need a boost. I know a few who could benefit from it.
In fact, I find myselg telling those girls the same thing that are in the book, essentially. Especially the "PS" line, and similar.
However, I agree about honesty. Realtionships aren't really about emotion. It's just easier to say they are. Fear, inadequacy, lonliness, desparation, whatever.
what makes for real relationships is two people who really want to be in a relationship...
(with each other)
If a girl asked me out because she thought I am a good catch, I'd congratulate her. But only because I wouldn't be surprised if she did the same if I were in her shoes.
^that will take some explaining later, perhaps
As far as asking people out.....
neither way give you more control, as far as I'm concerned. It always takes two people to be in a relationship, and taht doesn't change. Some people have perferences, some people are more easily influenced, some like to be swept off their feet. But really, I don't think it matters what you "feel".
I believe it is the reasoning behind those feelings, the structure of it all, that matters most.
For example:
infatuation over someone who always is there for you and gives you what you need is one thing
infatuation over someone who doesn't return your calls and you don't understand why they don't want to be with you is another.