AttnKleinkind
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Okay, SO. I'm not sure if I'm allowed to post something of this subject matter...but if not feel free to delete this.
This is kind of an interesting situation. There's a huge backstory, but I think it will sum it up very briefly: My bisexual friend (a girl) started to have feelings for me late last year (I am also a girl) and though I had questioned my sexuality before, I wasn't too keen on having a relationship. There were a rocky few months where we were unsure where we stood, and I kind of kept changing my mind, but eventually I came around.
So the reason I'm posting has to do with the subject...sexual dissatisfaction. My girlfriend is the most beautiful girl I have ever seen and I absolutely adore being with her. Physically, we moved rather quickly because of the slow, on and off start our relationship had before we were officially going out. So just recently we've started having sex (as well as you can without a penis). We haven't had oral sex yet, but that's been kind of on our minds. Whenever we fool around, my girlfriend enjoys herself immensely, but me on the other hand...sometimes I'm not even turned on AT ALL. It's extremely frustrating, and we've talked about it...but I don't exactly know what to do. I always feel foolish whenever we talk about it, and it usually puts a damper on the times when we are together. I'm actually starting to become quite jealous too. It's not that I NEVER enjoy myself...but hardly, and only briefly.
I don't even exactly know what I'm asking...but I'm just wondering about thoughts on this situation. Because I don't know what to do, or even if there's anything I CAN do...
Haha wow, this is an embarassing post....
This is kind of an interesting situation. There's a huge backstory, but I think it will sum it up very briefly: My bisexual friend (a girl) started to have feelings for me late last year (I am also a girl) and though I had questioned my sexuality before, I wasn't too keen on having a relationship. There were a rocky few months where we were unsure where we stood, and I kind of kept changing my mind, but eventually I came around.
So the reason I'm posting has to do with the subject...sexual dissatisfaction. My girlfriend is the most beautiful girl I have ever seen and I absolutely adore being with her. Physically, we moved rather quickly because of the slow, on and off start our relationship had before we were officially going out. So just recently we've started having sex (as well as you can without a penis). We haven't had oral sex yet, but that's been kind of on our minds. Whenever we fool around, my girlfriend enjoys herself immensely, but me on the other hand...sometimes I'm not even turned on AT ALL. It's extremely frustrating, and we've talked about it...but I don't exactly know what to do. I always feel foolish whenever we talk about it, and it usually puts a damper on the times when we are together. I'm actually starting to become quite jealous too. It's not that I NEVER enjoy myself...but hardly, and only briefly.
I don't even exactly know what I'm asking...but I'm just wondering about thoughts on this situation. Because I don't know what to do, or even if there's anything I CAN do...
Haha wow, this is an embarassing post....