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~unforgettableFOXfire~ said:I was going to type a big response to this but relationships are just so frustrating, I quit trying for a reason, screw happiness, I cant deal with all the bullshit.
Honestly, women, you arent perfect either, before you go on bitching about how guys are complete assholes, figure out what precisely it is that you want, and dont try to manipulate us, cuz some people dont take it very well and will reciprocate by treating you in a similarly shitty fashion. Now Im not accusing anyone here of being like that, Im just saying, youre not so perfect yourselves, so before you group every single guy into one generic category of 'assholes' just think that maybe we're not 100% of your problem and there might be personal issues you have to deal with. Nobody is perfect, you cant expect the stars of us because you WILL be dissapppointed. Not all guys are assholes, and you all know it, but its very difficult to be in a position as a guy wherein you see the same thing from everyone you know --> Girl meets guy, girl doesnt take time to understand guy, girl misinterprets guy, girl breaks up with 'asshole', girl comes back whining about how there are no good guys out there, as a good guy you are forced to listen and help, they say thanks for being a friend, they go off and find someone else, process repeats, and all the while you sit there and help --> now then, I scorn any and all of you women out there who say guys are assholes but have at least 1 really close guy friend. Dont be so blind. Honestly, how do you think he feels? Hes not just there because he likes listening to you bitch about every little fucking thing under the sun. Trust me.
Wow...pretty harsh. You have an awful lot of bitterness towards women at the age of 17. What the hell has happened to you to make you feel this way?
What was it about peaseblossom's post that set you off this way? She was just wondering out loud why someone led her on...I don't think she was putting down the entire male population.
Yes, there are women out there who expect too much and don't know what they really want but there are a hell of a lot of men who are great at the mind-fuck game and don't care what damage they cause.
Luckily for most us, there are also some really great, honest, sincere people out there and some of us have been lucky enough to have found one but you can't be bitter because you haven't found what you're looking for (sorry about the play on words) just yet.
Peaseblossom...I doubt you did anything wrong...consider yourself lucky that you didn't get any more involved.