martha
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U2@NYC said:She is getting intrigued so it sounds like the perfect timing.
She's getting annoyed.
U2@NYC said:She is getting intrigued so it sounds like the perfect timing.
discothequeLP said:i didnt know she'd be so emotional about this, jeez. . .
discothequeLP said:alrgith, so i haven't talked to her since that short conversation on wednesday (?). she send me a text message today. it says,
"Are we friends? You don't talk to me for over a week. . . call and ask what i'm doing then hang up. . . so i was just wondering if you could let me know. I have another friend who does the same thing and its annoying as hell so please i ask you nicely are we friends yes or no"
i dont know if i'm gonna call her sometime this week or something, maybe try again with the ice cream thing, but i dont think i should. myabe i'll just let her fume for a little longer. . . i didnt know she'd be so emotional about this, jeez. . .
starsgoblue said:
This coming from the person who posted this thread titled "help me win back my ex-gf"---you couldn't let it go and now you're saying she's being all emotional because you're playing games?
I musta missed something somewhere....
discothequeLP said:she didn't seem like she cared about me that much. or i thought that at least she would play it cool for a little while, not just come right out and give me a ultimatum on our friendship like that.
For Honor said:I don't get it.........
I don't tolerate games. If I were her, I'd be saying "GET REAL".
whenhiphopdrovethebigcars said:
Yeah For Honor, but the original post of discotheque reads like
"i asked her a few days ago how things were with her b/f, and she tells me "umm, i dont know. . . fine, i guess." this past weekend her b/f, one of my best friends, invited me to a movie with a bunch of our other pals and her -- they didn't really seem to be hitting it off so well."
so you know - she apparently got a boyfriend. And it´s also one of discotheque´s best friends! So what about that guy. And who´s playing games
She should get real first of all - and decide for one of them, not switch around.
MrBrau1 said:I dated a girl for 6 years (From sophmore yr of college forward.) After school we lived together for 2 years. Then it went to shit. She left me. Stone cold. Gone 1 day. I was nuts for 6 months. Called her, hung out w/ her and her friends. Kept thinking if I tried, I'd get her back.
Fast forward 6 months. I'd met a new girl. Spent ALOT of time with her. Hadn't called the Ex in months. The nite I tell my new girl I love her, my Ex calls. She's crying, and asks "is it really over? we're never getting back together? I still love you."
Fucking freaky timing really. Now I'm gonna marry my new girl, and I'm still friends with the Ex, but I realise, if I'd ignored the Ex for 6 months, I'd have gotten her back.
discothequeLP said:well, to be honest, i'm starting to feel more and more detached from our 'relationship.' i mean, somedays i really really want to see her, but sometimes i dont even feel like talking or doing anything that has anything to do with her. and when i miss her it's not so bad anymore. so i'm about ready to leave if she doesn't want to do this.
martha said:
She's getting annoyed.
U2@NYC said:
Well, that is her problem. She is the one playing games for starters.
martha said:Then why the dogged pursuit of her?
For Honor said:
What do you really want, in regards to that person, at this momen in time?
For Honor said:Let me ask discoLP a question:
What do you really want, in regards to that person, at this momen in time?
(after you answer it, there is a follow up question of an unrelated matter)
For Honor said:
In regard to yourself, what do you want in a relationship?
This doesn't have anything to do with your current fixation. It's a secular question. It's just "what are you looking for in a relationship with a girl, right now?". And maybe you don't want to be in one at all, which is fine.
discothequeLP said:and realized that some girls actually liked me, i really wanted to have a girlfriend. to be completely honest i want a girl who likes me alot and just wants to have fun, hang out, and enjoy each other's company.
discothequeLP said:the point i was trying to make is that i haven't felt that spark with any of the girls i've met since we broke up.
For Honor said:
Do you have issues with loyalty to this person?
Just figured I'd ask, since someone else I know has loyalty issues, and he has difficulty moving on from a hopeless situation...
Not that your situation is hopeless. But I wonder - are you afraid that no one else will make you feel the way you did with your GF?
For Honor said:
Furthering my last question - did you come back to her out of fear that you wouldn't find "a spark" with anyone else?