I'm sorry I'm still laughing at your name ODB lmao Old Dirty Bastard?
Anyway I agree with Maddie I think he's asking a very valid question his description may seem harsh cause men are that way...especially when describing other men. But I digress.
Personally I really don't think they're very attractive...I would probably just walk by them in the grocery store w/o ever looking twice (although Pop Bono would probably make me stop). They're really just another Joe...their fashion sense is not always the best (would totally laugh if I saw anyone dressed like they did in the JT era in a supermarket) they get away with a lot because they're rock stars. But being famous is not enough to make one attractive, if celebrity was all it took we'd be all over every famous guy.
So ultimately I think it's their personality, charisma, etc. In U2's case the fact that they're so famous and care so much, about fans, world, etc. they're not rock and roll clich?. They're different and in a good way, that makes up for what they lack in physical standards as set by society. That?s not to say that they don?t look physically attractive to some, but even if they do it still goes past physical. You don?t really get to see that side of someone by simply running into them at a supermarket, but because media is so intense we do see this side of the band members. So that?s the difference.
We also don?t look at them with hopelessness and say damn the perfect man for me is taken. I think we look at them and say decent human beings exist and I will find the right one. In my personal life I?m not attracted to older men (older = lived in, mature, not necessarily a quality measured in numbers but usually comes with age and it?s very attractive). I just look for the same qualities in people my age, of course that also explains why I?m single.
Oh well hope you?re less confused about the female psyche, we?re really complicated in comparison I suppose.
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Long live the lemon!!!