No spoken words said:
You're doing a good thing for a person who means well. If she were someone who was cruel or mean, then I'd say you need to stop, but, despite how draining this probably is on you at times, bear in mind that you're being a good person and your kindness hopefully will not go forogtten by this girl. And maybe it'll impact your other suitemates in ways you cannot even predict right now. I think you're great for being the way you are with her.
Couldn't have said it better myself.
I too suffer from being "too nice" quite often in real life(I know I may come off as confrontational in here sometimes, but I'm not like that at all in real life).
I'll tell you a story that may help.
In high school there was this girl, who bless her heart just was handed a bad hand during her high school years(and we all know how rough those years are to begin with). She was very very late in hitting puberty, she literally looked and oftern acted like she was in 5th grade. A foot shorter than the shortest person, high pitch voice, had thick glasses, played the trombone and it was taller than her, carried this cutesy lunchbox, and on top of all that had some very overprotective Bible beating parents who sheltered her from everything. She wasn't allowed to listen to any secular music or watch any TV. So the poor girl just couldn't relate to anyone about anything, and was constantly being made fun of, by everyone. But she was one of those girls who either didn't realize everyone was making fun of her or pretended to not care because she was constantly trying to talk to people and be social but mostly ignored. She had one friend who was this girl that was about 6 ft tall very obese and horrible skin. Just a horrible hand to be dealt in life, especially during those years. She and I had several classes together, she was a brilliant girl, just socially akward. Now I would talk to her, even invited her to some church functions thinking that her parents would at least allow that, but apparently my Methodist church was too liberal. It wasn't easy to talk to her, we had very little in common and people would give me a hard time.
To make a long story short 10 years later at our reunion this very pretty girl comes up to me and starts talking to me, I have no clue who it is, so I look at her name tag and it's her. She went through puberty after high school, went off to college and really found herself there, and had lasik surgery. She came up to me and thanked me. Now by no means did I consider myself great friends with this person back then, in fact there were many times when I found her annoying and wished I had it in me to just pretend she didn't exist like so many others did. But she thanked me for being one of the few nice people in what she called the cruelest and most hurtful times of her life. She admitted to me that the only reason she came to the reunion was to kinda "show off" to all those that made her life miserable, but that it was nice to see me and tell me that I made an impact on her life.
It was a very humbling and emotional experience, and I felt like an asshole for all those times that I wanted to just blow her off. I had no clue that just spending a few minutes of akward conversation would have made any impact at all... now I wish I would have done more.
Ok, wow that was long, hope I didn't bore you to death and may offer some help...